Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

Hi ASBM, sorry to read that post. Gawd the last thing we need is to be left feeling needy!

SV - sorry about your experience too.

That's the thing, you don't know what games people are playing do you?

Makes me laugh too when you answer a message and they ask if they can msn or even meet you!! I haven't even got a photo on there. I run a mile when they do that.

I did go on a date just after Xmas, during the day 3pm sort of thing. It was really nice but the bells didn't ring - or whatever that expression is - and he knew, we still talk now and he's met someone. He's really sweet, pity really, quite nice looking but just not my type. It wasn't LDR but not near either.

Monty who's the fella with the pics then?

Good evening everyone.
asbm - really sorry LDR turned out to be a total wanker loser. Its amazing to think what we put up with at the time, but you did it with the best intention and he took the piss advantage.

SV - You've had the guts to confront LDR, see what he has to say but tbh wouldn't believe much of anything he has to say now. Are you still interested in him, or are you now out off by his behaviour?

asbm cant edit anything on there its such a crap site, its being really stupid, dont want to bother anyway.

thanks holly, i am still interested, sad to say. but if he doesnt reply Ill just have to get over it.

Evening Holly,
Thanks for that,but seriously he wasn't really me anyway iyswim but yes the experience has made me wary

SV if it's POF then you def.can for sure as we had this convo.last week i think
has my posting made you fear the worst?
tbh was in 2 minds to do it for that very reason

Jesus N1!
what type of a posting was that FFS?
blimey!you don't half know how to make a woman feel good

ASBM he's a sparkie and lives quite near me. Seems to be heavily into rugby (watching not playing lol).

He has asked for my phone number but I got a bit panicky and he said, well I'm only going to ask you for a date!! I've not answered it . I'll go on there later.

I have my ex complicating my life and I don't know whether I'm single or not , that's not the dc's dad just to clear that one up, but long term dp. Would need a thread all on its own that one.

Anyway, back to Sparkie. In the nice photo he is really hot, and in the other he looks like a middle aged bloke coming out of mass. ROFL

yes it has asbm but glad you posted. it just rang true a bit. if he turns out to be a bastard then my radar is seriously warped.

im glad size 16 can be ok N1 - phew. now i can sleep easy

Sparkie-great nickname that btw!
How can you not know whether you're single or notspill
and yes the pics well...

I know, i mean I just want to fing scream right now it took everything in me not to say something. i am having such a shit day and now i basically get called an overweight heffer. IM DONE

SV you have to take men at face value really or you'd never get anywhere really and someone genuine wouldn't get a look in
and i bet you're so glad that N1 has given you the green light to actually enjoy your dress size

SV - who called you that? Tell them to fcuk right off right whoever it was.

ASBM it would need a thread all of its own. Honestly. I don't think I have the energy. We've been seeing each other to 'talk' but we just 'party' lol.

I can't work out whether its over or not.

yeah whoopeedo. and apparently there are men that fancy overweight women. wow, you learn something new every day.

SV you are entitled to rant
quite frankly I'd shove his bar of soap where the sun doesn't shine

SV - off with their genitals head.

monty its just me and N1 we are not bonding so well. im a tad sensitive today.

oh dear re ex/not ex, i have been in that situation and i think was scared of being alone so clung on to him even though i didnt love him.

Monty i know what you mean about the energy
when it takes up too much of my mental energy its time to call it a day

hehehe you two make me laugh

SV - people that are critical of other people's body shape ought to take a good look at their own! No-one's perfect and beauty is in the eye of the beholder so ignore what anyone else has to say.

SV - I've read most of this thread I'm sure and have a clue I think about what you are going through.

WTF. That's offensive and hurtful.

oh dear. Best I shirk back into the shadows for a bit......

Well put indeed
we are all yummy mummies on this thread
hmm not quite sure what we can call N1 tho
SV any suggestions?