Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

by the time he has you in whatever position and naked to boot, he really wont be concerned about whether or not you have gained a few pounds

of course if you are really worried, then he can just do you from behind, that way he wont see yout tum at all

was that explained as you wanted asbm?

ok well I have mentioned it to him, and he said he hasn't been working out for a while so us to working out together would be good for us both... lol

Its not the few extra pounds i'm worried about its the wobblyness and strech marks, but hey so what i know loads of people will have then too, will just get drunk... lol

aww cheers Lou x
and all up for being done from behindtoo!
actually NSM i knew a guy who i thought would be all lights on and very uninhibited and he was the complete opp.
prob.one of my most disappointing experiences with a bloke
except for the sheer hilarity of the situ.obv.i didnt laugh there and then but i was truly gobsmacked nonetheless

NSM don't draw his attention to it
as i say a few glasses of vino and some sexy undies and you're sorted

asbm - I have already been with him quite a few times and know he will want lights on etc, but have been emailing him, and seems he doesn't mind...

Actully I knew he wouldn't but still worry about those kinda things...

he wont notice

i bet he has his own issues as well

lights on is ok

just dont do what i did once and realised after the event that i had left my curtains wide open and it was broad daylight!

Lou you could have charged them lol

thankfully i have hedging, but there is a possibility theneighbours over hte road could have seen, as their house is raised and further back

oh well lol

oh well while they're talking about you they're leaving some other poor bugger alone
that's what i always say

lou33 - you must be having way too much fun if you are doing that in the middle of the day... lucky you...

lol advantages of school age kids

sadly my life isnt always so racy

i'm so jealous, my dd is not even 2 yet, so I have a while to go untill I can have that kind of fun...

you sound like you're well on the way from what you're saying

actually yea I suppose I am, being single is great, I love it, I'm going to try be stay single for ages now....

I was thinking of day time fun, hey maybe if I get night time fun past me will move onto day, when I'm feeling more confident...

well i gave actor bloke my number on condition we just text for now, and what does he do?

calls me 3 times in a row, leaving 2 voicemails

i have reminded him of our agreement

lol nsm, it was actually quite exciting iirc

ok, that is not a good sign that he cannot follw simple instructions like no calling, text only...

Lou he isn't blackberry in disguise is he?
he rings,then when I don't answer texts to tell me he has?!!

he got over excited i think

he sounded like he was really nervous on my voicemail

he has been told and apologised

one more chance left

am i overly harsh? lol

no you're not
he's too full-on end of.
i only talk to those i choose to

i know i'm not really

hi, sorry to crash.
Thought this was the best place to come on and post about POF (have just registered and am getting e-mails and it is freaking me out!!) and have read down and you are all mentioning FRD - what's that?

def not too harsh, if you agreed previously he should not have broke the rules. One last chance... lol

God us single mums re mean, we have all been there before and fallen for those tricks the guys play like being too keen and pushy... Dont they realise all we want is great sex and maybe a date or two but thats it???

frd = friends reunited dating i believe

i have had enough of the couple of dates and good sex scenario, i am thinking i may want something more long term than that now

tho in all honesty i dont see myself with anyone in the future