Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

What has Marvel said now?
You know we do have to give him and blackberry 10/10 for pestering persistence
at least i can turn off my phone tonite at pub chucking out time as i have my dcs

just said "passed", taking about his motorbike scooter test

aww.another badge to sew on his sleeve
another cert.to frame and hang on the living room wall
NICE!

Do you think that he's actually confusing you with somebody who cares gives a fcuk?

perhaps. and he wouldn't hang it on wall. no space beside all the many MANY framed pics of scooters

ooh will be strategically positioned above the head board then as a possible focal point

asbm - heard from him last night and it was a bit uncomfortable maybe? i agree and think that once they get sex the chase if off for them. and yes i do want to hear about your LDR man!

RJ - not heard from him today, have not sent him a text today either, dont want to look too stalkerish!

i dont think the thrill wares off for all men after the chase.

i kind of wish now that i had won him over with my amazing personality before sleeping with him though. but i guess not all men are the same :D

SV has he basically given you the brush off here?
I thought that he was wanting you to go and visit him
Am happy to talk about my LDR twat man
but hope the others just ignore the post as they have heard about him before
I am well over him btw
I was never that into him in the first place tbh
I will post about him later

I dont know asbm, i feel like it, but i am confused really, he seems different.

i shall read with interest later ;)

I emailed ldr, basically clearing up the confusion that is my head, without trying to sound stalkerish. will let you know if he replies!

fingers crossed

SV what do you mean by different?
Is he not making the effort re:keeping in touch?
I am not anti LDR btw.I don't believe that they are right for me as a starting point of a relationship
In my own case i initially thought that a LDR would be ideal for me as I wouldnt see him that often and could effectively control the situ.and fit it in around my life with dcs
He was v.keen from the off in fact so keen that it was a bit frightening tbh.
He was also i add very consistent with his phone then too-no broken finger syndrome
Obviously i did eventually sleep with him and he then didn't get in touch for about 3 days.Knowing his shift patterns and the bad weather conditions of the time i was worried sick thinking the worst had happened.He eventually got in touch after a few texts from me claiming that he'd left his phone in his car
Anyway from then pretty much onwards came excuses and let downs,promises to try harder to keep in touch etc and I went along with it
making excuses for his behaviour to all my friends who were by now going mad and urging me to bin him
I issued him with an ultimatum and he was straight on the phone and straight over to see me.Then it got to before Xmas and he had a serious illness within his immediate family so once again didnt see him with precious little contact etc and i was once again left worrying and wondering about him.I think i saw him once more and I knew that it would be the last time, I really felt nothing for him and tbh couldn't wait for him to leave.
I didnt have the heart to end it as I didnt feel that the timing would be right with the illness etc so i left it hoping it would just peter out which it eventually did aft.he had app.blocked me on his phone and was going to sort it.
I don't IMO even believe half of what he told me now looking back on it but the whole experience left me feeling upset and needy,tho I never loved him thank god,I did obv.care about what happ.to him and he exploited me for it quite wickedly.
The day I woke up and decided that I wasn't going to wonder or worry any more about him was truly liberating for me.
Then I decided about a month later to rejoin the site and within 2 hrs of this and despite a namechange on my part he'd found me!
I was amused at first then bloody angry as all those feelings of being used came into play as well as disgust for his evident liking for LDRs and a type of woman which i obv.was
I sent him a long message on the site telling him exactly what i thought about him,it was a really positive experience for me tbh
He responded by suspending his profile there and then and I haven't heard from him since.
As i say I am not anti LDR at all but my own experience was very unpleasant and i am sceptical about them now tbh

Yep hes not making an effort keeping in touch anymore, sounds all to familiar to your story. oh dear.

cant believe he found you again!!

i have had a serious ldr before, but have never dated long distance, i am not keen tbh.

Hello all, well I've been lurking on here for a while.

I've been 'smooching' recently without any luck whatsoever.

This thread makes me laugh ie those pictures of men with cars and FISH they've caught lol.

I'm talking to a bloke on there at the minute who I know is on the verge of asking me out.

Trouble is, one photo is lovely and the other is horrid!!!!!!! I know I know I'm a shallow moo.

What to do????????? I'd die if I didn't like him in the flesh I would want to do a runner. Has anyone ever done that? Not that I would but I'd want to. I suppose I could do the old emergency call. lol

hi monty, the emergency call is a good one, if it has to be done it has to be done lol youve got to meet him really to get the full picture!

Sorry it took so long to post that SV i could go on but its not v.nice reading is it really?
Yes,I wouldn't not have one again but only if I was already in the relationship
I have an instant alarm that rings when I have men contacting me who live miles away or when I have those who have over a certain mileage search on their profile
As i said fortunately i wasn't in love with him,am over it,but,can't and won't forgive him for his deliberate cruelty and cyniscism.
Has he not been in touch at all since last week or have you had to make contact first?

I have had 2 long distant relationships. The distances (round trip) were 600 miles and 480 odd. The 600 ended because I couldn't move to her (at that time) and she said she had to many up and down feelings. She was up while I was there and down when I wasn't. I saw her every weekend for the whole weekend. The second relationship ended because she felt the had to go back to her ex. I understand the reasons she felt the way she did, not that I agree. It was her decision and I didn't want to influence her.

I think both relationships could have worked out well. Perhaps a bit of a difficult start, but they could have worked.

Hi Monty!
yes this is a top thread for keeping us all amused
photos?one nice the other horrid?
am intrigued lol.

Evening N1
still playing with your bar of soap there are we?!

its not nice for you asbm and you deserve better. thanks for telling me.

i hav had to make first contact the past few days, then i went and had my freaky moment, since then he has been quiet. emailed him earlier and so far no response.

SV am not surprised that you have had a freaky moment
is he on MSN tonite or have you checked to see whether he's been onsite?

not checked if he has been onsite, i darent he will know ive checked, and that is stalkerish! hes not been online at all, well not that ive seen...

SV you can or should be able to make yourself invisible on there
my exbf would as i now know block then unblock me on msn