Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

i think it's a great thread as it's so light hearted but relevent
I know that there are alot of serious issues that need to be addressed on MN but this one is just so positive which is how life should hopefully be as a lone parent
it should be all about the future and the future being for living and making the most of it
{asbm evangelical emoticon}

I used to put a tenner on my mobile (prepay) every 4 to 6 months. Texting included. Now it's £15 a month on one of my phones.

I prefer skype though.

I have used more texts this year (already) than I have in the last 3 years all together. Social texts only. Other texts are hobby related.

ooh N1 too many cyberwomen!

i get unlimited texts on my phone and 500 free minutes cross network anytime, with my contract

i get unlimited texts on my phone and 500 free minutes cross network anytime, with my contract

ooh dunno what happened there

Evening all, been reading through the thread. I got really busy at work and then came home and decided to tackle the ironing after giving DS a bath! I've been reading through the thread for the last 30 odd mins.
N1 - thanks for your email
Inthemist - I wondered whether you'd been hasty with Bob, anyway pleased you've got another chance to reconsider.
NSM - welcome, hope you find some inspiration on this thread, like asbm said it is light hearted but very relevant to single parents situations and the whole dating thing, throw in children and of course it all seems quite daunting. I met someone on POF, nickname for him is fitguy or fittie. I met him last Saturday and were seeing each other again soon . Stay on this thread as you will get a lot of support and good luck with your potential nm.
Going back to earlier conversations, I like a guy to take a bit of pride in his appearance (but not in a metrosexual way!!) but personality is probably more important. Oh and someone as least like my exH as possible is a big bonus which fittie appears to be!

HI LOU!!!
look was so pleased to see you typed it in capitals
some welcome eh?
how are you doing?
i will email you also when i get my email probs.resolved
i blame my overflowing inbox on FRD lol
Evening Holly
oh god yes someone very unlike the exh is a big plus end of.

By aseriouslyblondemoment on Thu 05-Mar-09 21:52:19
ooh N1 too many cyberwomen!

Just one woman who got that many texts. Most people are lucky to get more than one or 2 a week or sometimes a month.

RJ - Have you heard from Diver? and are u having an early nite tonight by any chance?

lucky her

ok so he replied to say he has a niece and nephew similar age to my dd, so does not seem to be scared off by the idea...

holly23 - I have a real problem with guys who take ages to get ready, ex p wasalways getting his hair cut and talking about his hair, it really pissed me off. but i do like a guy who looks good

NSM theres looking good and being a bit too into looking good iyswim!
what is your type?

bob, still hanging in there, have just had a very in depth conversation with him and we are possibly planning a weekend away in the future, god it all sounds so grown up!

N1, I have received the photos and will be passing it on to the others in the group, hopefully we will eventually manage to meet up!

NSM - what do you think about guys and waxing? we were talking about this earlier today.

N1 - whats your opinion on men who wax? is it something you've done or would consider doing?

inthemist!!!
a proper weekend away

Holly please don't am thinking of David Beckham again

I didn't cut my hair for 5 years. Someone who I was in court with a few months back was that bothered by my hair - so it was cut.....but not to short. It takes me less than 5 minutes to get ready, and I am not to fussed about how I look. As long as I am warm in the cold, I am ok.

Inthemist - sounds very grownup! good for you though.
NSM - looking good with nm, we need a nickname for him tho.
also going back to what you said about saggy tummies and all that, I feel the same!

N1 don't avoid the question you're not in court now!
not cutting your hair for 5 yrs will give us all Forrest Gump moments lol

ok hands up here on this thread who has given birth?

I think that is all of us cept N1, I am sure he would have liked to!

Hands up all of us who have body issues?

ok thats pretty much all of us, forget it, real people are not interested in the packageing ( although I will say it helps!) but about the person inside.

Anyway thats my take on it!

Night night, going to dream of ??????????

hi asbm

By Holly23 on Thu 05-Mar-09 22:12:14
NSM - what do you think about guys and waxing? we were talking about this earlier today.

N1 - whats your opinion on men who wax? is it something you've done or would consider doing?

Me wax?????? noooooo. Some people bleed from waxing and it looks painful. so count me out. If I was with a girl and she wanted me hairless - a possible solution would be for her to shave it off but that opportunity would come with a cost (and hopefully a deterrent). When my hair starts to grow back, I would itch and have possible ingrown hairs. Both need sorting and I am to lazy.....so the shaver would need to accept responsibility for that job, along with rubbing in the talk powder or cream or what ever it takes to keep the itch away. Decided before the hair comes off.

A bloke who waxes - errr, I think it's a bit to girly like. I guess each to their own but I can't see me joining the "waxing club".

nite inthemist!
fwiw i dont have body issues thank goodness
and going to dream of ?????
mmm!!??
HI LOU!

hey N1
all that rubbing in cream might be fun