Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

not asking for much then lol
have you actually found that men have been put off because of the dc/s?
and how is your new proactive regime working then apart from the one abucted by internet dating aliens?
ooh and do you have a type?
we need to know that in case we come across any likely matches
this is Holly's speciality
tbh.she fancies herself as a bit of a Cilla

RJ he is a pest
i have tried everything ignoring,sarcasm,switching off my phone etc
i think he's given up
and then he's back again
don't want to be really rude but might have to say
FCUK OFF!

I guess the ds x 2 do put people off - but not because of them, but I'm biased, because I wont/ can't drop everything and go off to concerts or fly to Spain for a cheap school time holiday. Its actually attracted a couple of people apparently I'm very homely - but after a while they've come across as people who want a little wife.

The thing is I am very homely I like to have a hot meal on the table, have big family roasts, I can sew etc. But I'm also an Engineer and I've worked as an Engineering manager for a large manufacturing company Which I gave up after DS1 was born, so I need any dates to respect that I have an opinion and a brain. But I guess that goes for everyone.

The proactive regime has been the one email. I'm brilliant at multitasking generally but find it really hard to have several contacts on the go.

I also struggle with the too good to be true thing. If I find them attractive they why the what ever haven't they been snapped up and they wouldn't look at me anyway so why try. Self defeating I know!

The alien abductee has my number but I didn't get his. Or maybe he chose not to give it to me. We've been emailing via match and if it hadn't gone offline again then I would email him. You're all right nothing to loose.

well at least you're not that bothered about it
would you chat with him again if he's online?

Going to email now - its back online (whilst its online)

fingers crossed then!

antagoney - did you email??

so...marvelman sent another msg. damn will really have to call him and have that chat.

but......diver is coming down tomorrow night.i have all my fingers crossed it will go as planned and he will make it.

i've got my sister organised to baby sit as i know she wont let me down.

now i have to completely de fuzz, find an outfit(thank goodness for dbenhams sale tomorrow), and some new undies

Email sent. He is usually online at around 8 so will update as soon as I've any news. I've said I'm hoping it was a site glitch but if he disapears again I'll take the hint so its an easy out for him.

I've got so much to learn de fuzzing! I guess I need to work all these things out.

oooohh rj, I am so excited for you, what are you going to do with him? Dinner, pub? And the new undies are for your eyes only?

Just tell marvel man to sling his hook. lol, but in a nice way.

Well done ant, you have nothing to lose, fingers crossed for you.

Wheres Holly? I fancy a trawl through the sites and need Cilla to give advice.

de fuzzing is the removal of the winter coat of hair i've shamelessly allowed during my drowt

asbm, I think you made need to send a txt to blackbery man and say f**k off, enough is enough. Good Luck

i might give him a peek of my undies if he's a perfect gentleman and doesn't ask.lol.

i find nothing more attrative than someone who doesn't push for it. the more they tell you they can wait, the more i'm interested.

look at marvel. he was all over me and it was a complete turn off.

I admire your restraint, I am just not good at being so restrained, if I am in the mood!!!

this is the problem. i am very much in the mood for it with diver.

thats great, you have done it by the book so far, a few dates, lots of txting etc. A little impulse will just add spice to the mix.

i'm impressed he's going to do an 8 hr round journey on spur of the moment without the offer of anything more than dinner.

surely that deserves a little peek

most definitely, especially if you are feeling good about it too, I do so hope it works out for you rj. (grin)

i really dont like it when i get asked if i want to talk on msn as soon as i have replied saying hello

is it just me who feels they are only trying to find someone to make their cock twitch when they ask this?

Yep its like straight in with a want to go out tonight. Its too full on - as is asking for a mobile number after one message.

yes i dont like that either

i doubt i will get a reply back, i just said "why?"

i like to take it at my own pace when i have decided if they are worthwhile talking to in real time

lol i must have upset him, he has just now closed his account!

It shows a sensitive side - thats a desirable characteristic. He has at least one redeaming feature then.

blimey busy since last on here!
RJ how exciting for you!
and yes love any excuse to get new undies!
way hey you enjoy!
inthemist thought you were jaded like me?
Ant you have done all you can re:him,ball def.in his court
Lou whos this then?!