where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elm thought you'd like that

think i've sent it to the right email asbm

are you regretting not shaving your legs now?

will look in a bit!
mine is fairly obv.i think!

SCL thought it was MSN when I asked about the IM. He could be just checking his messages. I still do that even though I never reply to any. Except tonight when I got another message from a serial stalker tryer.

Might delete my POF profile soon.

you can hide you POF for a while if you want instead eve.

ASBM, yes I sussed yours on a closer look. Will get in touch over the weekend, thanks.

I did do my legs, and the rest, afterall but behaved myself last night.

OK. I'm going to hide it now. Presume it will be obvious how to.

thats what you need to do
i am not on theprowl look on FRD
but have made myself invisible as was bored by it
i still pop on to check out messages etc but am not replying

when you go to delete profile it gives you option of hiding or deleting

there we go then
out of interest do you check up on diver?

no its not MSN it's the dating site I am on.

It shows if hes online. I am on the brink of sending a rather caustic txt. come on it doesn't take much to send a little txt even if its to say hello.

I need a bit of attention!

no need. he sacked the member of his crew who had laptop. waiting on office getting them a new one.

but i wouldn't.

i could have checked up on banker. but i never. i did catch him once online while i was emailing diver in early days. it came up as in "my city"

i dont feel the need. why upset myself. i am checking out online too so cant really get upset by them doing the same.

I am not even pre menstrual!!

SCL - i wouldn't , would look like your checking up on him.

imagine everytime you went online to check mail he pinged you, or sent an email. what if he's checked his mail earlier and not logged out??

a good point
ive had probs with escaping signing out of site lots lately!
dont send text pls.
i am desp to do it too but am refraining
and iam PRE MENSTRUAL!!

alright I won't - but I just cant stand this.

Yeah I have been peed off when people have made comments to me. Like have I upset you etc etc. I know its a turn off.

On the one hand I am a hard bitten old bag but on the other I am a hopeless romantic who hasn't given up on a mutual thing where nno games are played.

4 glasses of wine haven't helped either!

how do you ladies feel about long distance relationships? my nm is a bit far, but i have a few others from OKC on the go just in case. not literally on the go but chatting and stuff lol

he is very very nm, and i dunno if it will work, he is keen tho.

he's perhaps not playing games. he may well be dating other people. but lets be honest....you could be too if you get the right offer.

you just gotta keep your cool.if he's right it'll work out.

oh i know its horrid
i think you quite like him...
i dont play games intentionally either
tho have been accused of doing so

SV
my horrid exbf was a LDR
and really couldnt see myself doing it again
how far from you is he?

ok fess up - we got very very friendly on our date so that's why I am like this.

I am so predictable!!

supervixen - i also have a v v nm long distance.

we've had 1 date. but daily contact via text/phone. met middle of feb. next meeting will be middle of march(unless there's a miracle this wkd)

he stays 3.5hr away when he's on the boat

1.5hr when he's on land.

it suits me just now as my spare time is limited. and a closer person would require more attention

asbm he is about 1.5 hours drive away, he drives, i dont. dont want him to meet dd yet obv, so its hard work.

but rj can see your point, it does suit me fine right now, but if we got closer i wouldnt like it so much!

that is more difficult. we both drive. and dont mind driving a distance. depends how the fella feels about travelling to see you all time as you wont be going to him

scl - just because you got v friendly doesn't mean he will have lost interest. hang on in there and keep it light hearted for the moment. i doubt you want a serious thing at the moment either??do you