How would you feel if your 16 (nearly 17) year old ds had a threesome??

[Ms1970]

Basically what would you think if a 16 year old and his friend (same age) ended up in a very drunken threesome with a friend of a friend of a friend who is in her mid to late 30s?

They're all single, used protection I believe, and no ill effects except from some very sore heads in the morning.

wonder what the hell she was doing.. hope that it was a phase with them - sounds like in circs did all could to be sensible.

appalled????????????

I'd think that I wouldn't be thrilled but it's not illegal. And I suppose I'd be glad that he'd been sensible and that he felt he could tell me. I guess.

trip trap

I'd be v jealous of the friend of a friend of a friend.

I'd feel like I was reading the News of the World or the Sunday Sport

i would wonder where my son was, getting drunk and having sex with women in their late 30's

i would wonder why i didn't know where my son was aged 16 drunk as he is still in my care.

which is quite different imo from knowing where your son is with the strong possibility of him being a bit pissed with is mates ( as is their want at 16)

I'd also think the woman could get charged with grooming or such like if it were 2 16 year old girls with a bloke in his 30's I'm sure the police would be concerned......

Does seem trip trap though.

Y tu mama tambien?

Pedro70/Mrs1970 whatever your name is , where are you?

He told you this???

1 Hmmmmm....
2 Why would he tell you ????

personally, id be shocked that that my son would be involved in such behaviour. how does he truly know the lady was willing and not simply being taken advantage of under the influence of alcohol. she may well have suggested it etc, but she was drunk, id like to think my son would recognise that given she is basically a stranger etc that she was vulnerable. more to the point, by agreeing to it where do you draw the line. they were all drunk. next time it may be a girl a bit younger (perhaps encouraged by your son)because its been done before. she may change her mind or become comotosed from alcohol. could find himself accused of rape. id worry about the lack of respect and would want to talk about what happened. they are only 16. why did they want to share this news with you? seems a bit bizarre. im all for being open nd close but it seems to be beyond that.

To be honest, I would think it's fairly normal young lad behaviour - I bet the boys thought all of there christmases had come at once!

I think they are maybe a bit too young to be in this situation but I knew 18/19 year old lads who were in similar circumstances. Not a huge issue IMO depending on maturity but equally if it was my son I wouldn't like it very much!

gross.

no matter if they were 16 or 70.

'typical lad behaviour'.

would people be so non-chalant if it were their daughter and her friend having sex with a man that old?

Ask what the woman in her late 30's was doing having sex with a just legal teenage boy and his friend! Outrageous!!

They're teenagers, of course they're going to have sex with 'Stifler's Mom'!

I'd get all Lynette Scavo on her arse and give her a bloody good slap! If he ws my son that is.

They were nearly 17 fgs and why on earth is age relevant here anyway? They got to have the time of their lives and so did she. Good for all of them.

It wasn't me....................this time

"time of their lives" is a reference to an expression "time of you life" generally considered to mean enjoying oneself thoroughly. I think that there is little doubt that they all did that, they didn't cause harm to any other sentient being and god knows there is little enough enjoyment in life, "drunken" or otherwise.

It's a hideous/repulsive/gross idea.

I do so hope this is a troll thread.

Why are there so many trolls at the moment

Here, hope it works www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=am_i_being_unreasonable&threadid=677979-To-find-my-wife-physically-repu lsive#13798599