How would you feel if your 16 (nearly 17) year old ds had a threesome??

[Ms1970]

Basically what would you think if a 16 year old and his friend (same age) ended up in a very drunken threesome with a friend of a friend of a friend who is in her mid to late 30s?

They're all single, used protection I believe, and no ill effects except from some very sore heads in the morning.

nooka, i am talking form my own personal experience. it may well not be the norm
when i was teaching, there were some kids i wouldnot be caught alone in a room with. ever. for the sake ofmy ownreputation. with me it was boys, and with my male colleague it iwas girls.
as i livedin the ocmmunity i taught in, i had seem someof them in action. and, well, in their case, they were very very sexually mature, and aware. and i would feel for any poor sod who thought they were 19 or twenty.
a bloke who meets ag irl in a nightclub is not a paedophile, even if it turns out th egirl was 15, or even 14. he swas a stupid idiot,and all sorts of other derogatory adjectives, but not a paedophile.

By nooka on Sat 10-Jan-09 19:17:38
"I know that the OP is the perp (or pretending to be so, who knows). What I said was how did she know how old the boys were."

it;s in the thread title
How would you feel if your 16 (nearly 17) year old ds had a threesome??

i think as a rule if there is a disproportionate age between the two parties, one needs to examine the power relationship.

there is probably v. litle power relationship in a 15-16 as opposed to a 16-16

when its 30 -16 there has to be a question of decency and morality depsite or inspite of the law

Sorry you are missing my point. Which is how did the OP know they were 16. I know she had sex with them, but did they show her their birth certificates?

Stitch I am not disagreeing that there are sexually active and actively out there teenagers. Just that as adults we should be able to say no. As indeed you show that you and your colleagues are, by making absolutely sure you are never in a compromising situation. I can quite imagine that there are some young men and women who have terrible shocks that the sexual partner they thought was 18+ turns out to be 15 or younger. I would however expect this sort of experience to cease once you are older than 25 or so, and I do think that is rather different to a much older man or woman knowingly sleeping with teenagers, and saying that they led them on (which is a line often used by those who actively seek out the underage).

i assumed as she used )ds she was the mum

what suggests she isn't?

certainly put together with 'used protection i believe'

oh she was the friedn of a fiend, i see - sorry nooka

i think its skanky

V skanky!

Excellent post nooka. It must be a troll-any parent would be appalled.

At 16/nearly 17 one can feel pressured into doing things that are 'cool' or that 'everyone' is doing.

Boys have done this sort of thing in the past & then felt used & dirty afterwards. (I remember an interview I read)

I wouldn't be happy about this. Someone asks why not at 16, would it be OK at 17, 18, 19... Well I don't know where you draw the line, but it's not OK at 16 - 16 year olds should be discovering relationships with others of the same age.

OP, how would your f(r)eind of a friend of a friend feel to have an angry parents knuckles scrape their teeth?