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Don’t have anyone to sign passport

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BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 15:49

I really want to take my children abroad but don’t have anyone to do their passports. Has anyone been in this situation and what did you do? (Don’t need any suggestions of who can sign it I’m aware and have looked through the list but don’t have anyone that can do it) is there anything else that can be done if you’ve been in this situation?

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Snapncrackle · 23/03/2025 16:46

My son has signed lots of passports over the years
he’s a security guard so he had a SIA badge

My beauty therapist signed mine for me a few years ago

My niece works for the NHS as a receptionist in A&E and has signed passports

When my mum was a brownie leader she used to sign passports all the time I’m sure the passport office thought she was doing a second job in signing passports 😂

The local pub landlord / landlady can also sign passports

just a few random people with very different jobs / retired

Normandy144 · 23/03/2025 16:46

You're being quite defeatist to be honest. What about childminders or nursery staff that may have cared for your children (doesn't matter if they don't now). Or previous class teachers - try asking the teacher directly or what about the teaching assistant? If you really don't know anyone at all then I would work on creating a social circle and get to know people. Enrol your children in activities e.g. brownies, beavers, dancing,martial arts etc. you can then approach the leaders of these activities.

Thebloodynine · 23/03/2025 16:46

I don’t believe your children don’t have a single friend at school. Someone’s mum or dad will sign it for you. Don’t you talk to any other parents? Don’t your kids go to any clubs?
You must have friends or colleagues.

mediumdicketh · 23/03/2025 16:46

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 23/03/2025 16:42

I'm a good example of someone who can countersign, but my profession isn't on the list. I'm a person of good standing in the community and I've got a lot to lose by being caught in a lie. So I've been asked to sign loads of applications, all have been accepted without question.

can you sign mine thanks lol

Isthismykarma · 23/03/2025 16:46

I recently applied for a passport and had three different countersignatures knocked back as they didn’t fit criteria. It isn’t as simple as just finding somebody with a passport. They often want somebody off the list of approved professions and will check this sometimes as they did with me.
I think access to a passport is very important and having a countersignature by now should be very outdated. I was fine as I had loads of people I could ask, but 8 years ago I made a friend who had fled domestic violence from the other side of the country so literally knew nobody to sign hers either. I understand security is important, but there shouldn’t be barriers to a passport, there has to be a better system.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 23/03/2025 16:47

mediumdicketh · 23/03/2025 16:46

can you sign mine thanks lol

Sure, call me back in two years 😁

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:47

Thebloodynine · 23/03/2025 16:46

I don’t believe your children don’t have a single friend at school. Someone’s mum or dad will sign it for you. Don’t you talk to any other parents? Don’t your kids go to any clubs?
You must have friends or colleagues.

I didn’t say they don’t have any friends? I’m not friends with the parents though and they don’t know me.

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Christy135 · 23/03/2025 16:48

This must be one of the most infuriating posts on here this month.
Why did you create a post if you don’t want suggestions?

Gymmum82 · 23/03/2025 16:48

Do your kids do no clubs? At all? The football coach. The brownie leader. The swimming coach. The dance instructor. All of those can sign it.
Knock on every single one of your neighbours doors until someone agrees to do it.
Unless you are recluse that never leaves the house or interacts with anyone then I simply do not believe that there is not a single person that can do it. If there isn’t then you can’t get passports or go abroad. It’s that simple

DappledThings · 23/03/2025 16:48

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:47

I didn’t say they don’t have any friends? I’m not friends with the parents though and they don’t know me.

But would they recognise you and your children? If they know you well enough to nod hello at the school gates you can ask them.

Moveoverdarlin · 23/03/2025 16:49

In the time OP has been on this thread she could have nipped next door, over the road, over to her kid’s friends parents house.

You may have to speak to people, you may have to smile and make chit-chat and you may have to elaborate on why you’re in such a predicament. You may have to provide a bottle of wine or bunch of tulips.

This is the most frustrating thread I’ve ever read.

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:49

Isthismykarma · 23/03/2025 16:46

I recently applied for a passport and had three different countersignatures knocked back as they didn’t fit criteria. It isn’t as simple as just finding somebody with a passport. They often want somebody off the list of approved professions and will check this sometimes as they did with me.
I think access to a passport is very important and having a countersignature by now should be very outdated. I was fine as I had loads of people I could ask, but 8 years ago I made a friend who had fled domestic violence from the other side of the country so literally knew nobody to sign hers either. I understand security is important, but there shouldn’t be barriers to a passport, there has to be a better system.

Thank you! People won’t understand that there are some situations where people genuinely don’t have anyone to do it. I won’t be going into details why as that’s personal and not giving out my life story but I was simply asking if there was anything in place for this situation.

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mediumdicketh · 23/03/2025 16:49

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 23/03/2025 16:47

Sure, call me back in two years 😁

see you then old buddy old pal!

WearyAuldWumman · 23/03/2025 16:49

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:16

There is no one that can do it I said im not asking for suggestions as I know there is no one who can do it I’m aware of the list and aware who can sign, I don’t have anyone to sign. I was only asking if anyone had been in this situation and what they did, but it seems the only people responding are those who haven’t been in this situation then getting annoyed at me? 😕 I’m not asking your advice I’m asking for advice from people that have been in this situation and if there is any alternative set up for people who have no one to sign.

I'm seeing that you tried your children's school. Your former secondary school wouldn't have any of the teaching staff who knew you as a pupil?

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:49

Christy135 · 23/03/2025 16:48

This must be one of the most infuriating posts on here this month.
Why did you create a post if you don’t want suggestions?

I want to know what others in this situation did. Do you have trouble reading?

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SuffolkUnicorn · 23/03/2025 16:50

DenholmElliot11 · 23/03/2025 16:13

You're annoying.

Well said

Thebloodynine · 23/03/2025 16:50

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:47

I didn’t say they don’t have any friends? I’m not friends with the parents though and they don’t know me.

So what? They know your kids. That’s all that matters! Text anyone from your kids’ classes and ask. Ask in the group chat or class Facebook page. You haven’t even asked? So you’ve spent years wanting to go on holiday, claim you’ve done everything you can and don’t need suggestions… but you haven’t even asked any parent from school? Grow a backbone.

SuffolkUnicorn · 23/03/2025 16:50

At this rate I’ll sign it

Isthismykarma · 23/03/2025 16:50

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:49

Thank you! People won’t understand that there are some situations where people genuinely don’t have anyone to do it. I won’t be going into details why as that’s personal and not giving out my life story but I was simply asking if there was anything in place for this situation.

I’m sorry to say I don’t know what she did about it in the end

WearyAuldWumman · 23/03/2025 16:50

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:49

Thank you! People won’t understand that there are some situations where people genuinely don’t have anyone to do it. I won’t be going into details why as that’s personal and not giving out my life story but I was simply asking if there was anything in place for this situation.

I've just had a thought - would a local councillor be able to do it for you?

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:50

WearyAuldWumman · 23/03/2025 16:49

I'm seeing that you tried your children's school. Your former secondary school wouldn't have any of the teaching staff who knew you as a pupil?

My old secondary school is closed down.

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Peaceandquietandacuppa · 23/03/2025 16:50

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:01

Thanks but as said I don’t need suggestions there is no one. I will try calling them.

Neighbour? Do you work? As a PP said the list isn’t exhaustive so there must be someone. A manager.

RockaLock · 23/03/2025 16:50

OP, PPs are trying to help you, but you are being very frustrating.

Many PPs have asked you whether you have any contact with any adults at all, but you refuse to answer them. It is hard for people to understand why, if you have children at school, you are unable to ask any of the other class parents. Even if you don’t “know” them as friends, as long as they have seen you rocking up to the school for a couple of years, that’s all that is needed, and I am sure that there will be a parent who has a passport and can sign for you.

So, is it that you really never have any contact with any other adults ever, or is it that you don’t want to ask? If you could explain why you think there is absolutely no one who can sign for you, then you might get more sympathetic responses.

But as many PPs have said, yes, you need someone to sign. The rules are there for a reason and there is no way around them. So you need to either pluck up the courage to ask a parent of a classmate, or you need to forget going abroad on holiday.

Meanwhile33 · 23/03/2025 16:50

Do you have a WhatsApp group for your road? We get people asking for someone to sign their passport on ours.

Thebloodynine · 23/03/2025 16:51

BlueBurys · 23/03/2025 16:49

I want to know what others in this situation did. Do you have trouble reading?

I’m a lone parent and rather than messaging round friends, I just ask another parent at the school gate simply because it was quicker and easier and they gave me their email address and did it for me that evening.

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