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I hate men. sorry.

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MascaraOHara · 27/09/2007 21:50

but there's nobody here to talk to and I just had to get that off my chest.

And I hate myself for being so hopeful when I meet someone I think I could really like.

It's just wanky.

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MascaraOHara · 18/10/2007 12:38

but he has made his decisions hasn't he.. he walked away from it.

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MascaraOHara · 18/10/2007 17:20

Do you know I wish he would just say that I got the wrong end of the stick or that he doesn't fancy me/like me etc he was the one telling me it was all about give and take and how I needed someone to look after me, how my luck had changed.

He's skulking round the office like he's the one that's been dumped on.. I feel like telling him he's got no farking right to look miserable.

twat.

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Dior · 18/10/2007 18:18

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Turquoise · 18/10/2007 18:22

I am coming to the conclusion that there are an awful lot of single men who only want what they can't have. How old is this geezer? Is he divorced or never married?

He sounds staggeringly like the last knobhead I got mixed up with - who chased me for months when I wasn't interested, the minute I began to think, ok maybe, he cooled off and went into the "it's not quite right enough" number. But he keeps trying to keep me interested - seems to want me to want him, just for the ego boost.

You are right, it is his loss. Alone is so much better than with a moron like that. But I know it feels crap though.

I think I'm going to have to avoid men completely from now on, one more asshole and I am going to turn into a bitter ranting man hating harpy, which I'm really not, honestly!

FrightOwl · 18/10/2007 22:30

can i join?

i dont hate men but have no plans to get another one any time soon.

i loved my recent ex to bits but somehow he found it necessary to dissect my every comment and watch my every move. i think he still blames me for the break up and not his over the top possessiveness. quite clear from his comments he still thinks im full of shit

its a pity he still thinks like that, and also the reason i wont go back there.

Dior · 19/10/2007 09:26

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MascaraOHara · 19/10/2007 09:31

he came round. told me he does want me (after a long chat). don't feel any better to be honest.

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charliecat · 19/10/2007 10:01

Oh.
Is it worth the hassle and heartache?

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MascaraOHara · 19/10/2007 10:49

Don't know, am very hacked off.

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charliecat · 19/10/2007 10:54

Ok....what you gonna do?

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MascaraOHara · 19/10/2007 11:00

No idea! I don't know.. I feel so much for him but I had started healing.. I'd got angry and was starting to think by Monday I'll be fine.. now it's all up in the air again.

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charliecat · 19/10/2007 11:05

Dont rush. Have a good think.

Dior · 19/10/2007 11:39

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MascaraOHara · 19/10/2007 14:02

Told him if he goes all weird again I'll batter him. He said we'll have to sort work out.. not sure what that means.

I hate men.

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MascaraOHara · 19/10/2007 14:32

had a long meeting today, he touched my arm! and for too long iykwim

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MascaraOHara · 19/10/2007 19:19

so when I was about to leave (early), we bumped into each other in corridor. He chatted to me all the way down the corridor and to my desk.. and while I packed my stuff up... very chatty, not like him at all. not sure what's going on in his head. Am wondering if he's stopped caring if people at work are talking.

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Dior · 19/10/2007 22:12

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MascaraOHara · 20/10/2007 08:53

I have a dilemma today. My dd is staying with her grandparents tonight. I was going to sit in alone and be miserable or hit the town and drink myself into oblivion.. Should I call him and tell him I'm free if he wants to do anything or not this weekend.

Lol, I like the idea of pretty things.

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zippitippitoes · 20/10/2007 08:55

moh it's hard isn't it...

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MascaraOHara · 20/10/2007 08:56

It's crap Zippi!

Have you heard from bloke yet? I will message you later if I stay in.. signing off now - need to get up and dressed lol

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zippitippitoes · 20/10/2007 08:58

do..no so i think i won't be heaven knows

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MascaraOHara · 20/10/2007 16:15

oh that's crap Zippi.. though don't they normally leave it a good couple of days? he might not want to seem to keen.

I took plunge and mentioned my free night to bloke, he's busy watching rugby with mates though so is genuine I think. Did say we'll have to make up for it next week. Am at a loss as to what to think/feel at the moment.

Just a quick visit as dd at a prty and I was quickly listing some stuff on eBay. Off to collect her shortly, think I might decorate my bedroom tonight. exciting.

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Dior · 20/10/2007 17:24

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zippitippitoes · 20/10/2007 18:08

yeah if anybody lived near me they could go out with me...I don't think you do though so I'll be stuck in too

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MascaraOHara · 20/10/2007 18:48

Happy Birthday DIOR!!!!! hope you have a great nmight 9though suspect you have gone already)

bough all I need to decorate room, ipod speaker just stopped working so now have that in bits fixing it. god I am so pissed off..

I was going to go out with girlfriends but I just don't feel up to it. I'm no company anyhow at the minute!

you girls have a good night, I'm off to fiddle with wires then get covered in paint

Thanks for being here xx

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