My contracts are being sent out & I could be moving in a matter of weeks!

[Themessyone]

Starting to feel very scared now!

I am pleased it is all finally moving on, but it has been so long now, and I must admit to being a bit scared!

Will be needing MN over the coming weeks!

Felt kind of pleased today, but also very scared & very concerned for my boys.

Thanks, NurseryJo.

Went to see my counsellor today & she said "Next time I see you, you may have a moving date!"
Then at 5pm today, I find out it could be as little as 3 weeks!!
I next see her on the 19th May!

Sorry, 19th April!

Sorry, NJ - I have just realised that you are called NurseyJo & not NurseryJo, as I have been calling you for months!

Best I start thinking about packing now!

H may not be buying his flat now, because it will cost too much to extend the lease to 99 years.
He may be moving in with my parents for a few weeks & then going back to his mum's.

That's ok then!

Seems H may not be buying his flat now (something to do with the price of extending the lease), so is thinking of staying with my parents for a few weeks & then maybe going to his mum's!

He says he plans to tell his mum in the next week.

They don't see him as abusive though, Floating.

It is kind of twisted, but I am not that shocked that they have offered for him to stay there tbh. He spends more time with them than I do!

He is not prepared to spend out a couple of thousands to extend this lease, even though he has spent £800 on searches etc already! He says it stops becoming a bargain, so plans to stay with my parents & then go back to his mum.

He admitted last night that if he was to buy the flat, he planned not to tell his mum the truth at all

The boys are ok, but DS1 is struggling with all of this a bit.

The people buying our house have already exchanged & are wanting to get in soon!

Don't feel too great atm. I feel sad about what I am about to put my boys through.