Saw Xp yesterday and asked him if there was any news regarding council flat etc and he said no.
I said that he should chase them up and he said what for, he is quite happy where he is, his sister is more than happy to have him there and that he doesn't have to make any contributions at all so why would he want a flat where he had to pay bills etc.
Great for him but not for me and the kids.
It means no permanent arrangements for seeing the kids ever, and definatly no stopping over.
Feel like someone has stamped on me, I am never going to get a proper break ever and the kids are never going to know from one week to the next when they are seeing him.