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Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 31)

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Hatesponge · 10/04/2011 23:26

hurray

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

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TitsalinaBumSquash · 29/04/2011 23:42

I am still here, glum.

'Irish' has just dropped into conversation that he is doing grad prog after uni which could take him anywhere in the world, he will take whats given, in other words he isn't coming back. Heart is in pain.
Not his fault he never gave any hint it could be a proper thing but like a twunt I went and fell for him... through out this I am still chatting to him like I don't care.

TitsalinaBumSquash · 30/04/2011 19:29

And now he is a distant as hell and all the spark has gone from him, no naughty jokes, no wise cracks, no affection or fondness, no deep meaningful convos. It's over. I'm off to get wankered.

FairyLightsForever · 03/05/2011 10:18

Maybe the spark etc has gone because you are pretending that you don't care? I would be hurt if I thought that someone could switch off the feeling like that, having got on so well previously. Just a thought... I am sorry that you're hurting though.

aurorastargazer · 03/05/2011 13:21

((((((((titsalina))))))))))

aurorastargazer · 04/05/2011 11:08

was no-one about at all last night??

FairyLightsForever · 04/05/2011 11:40

I was in bed at 10 last night, feeling rubbish, lost my voice, so i sound like a bloke at the moment

aurorastargazer · 04/05/2011 11:50

((((hugs))))
how've you been flf?x
(please forgive me but are you on fb? i can't remember who's who )

FairyLightsForever · 04/05/2011 13:55

Yes, I'm on yours- ZK. It's hard to keep up with who's who, isn't it?
I'm good, but I'm mostly lurking on here, cos I'm very single and staying that way for the forseeable future, so don't really belong here!

aurorastargazer · 04/05/2011 13:57

yes you do you great twit!!!
there's some of us on here on the edge of the marital sofa but we still post on here so please don't feel that you have to lurk and can't post!!!
(and thnaks for the initials!)

aurorastargazer · 04/05/2011 13:57

have just looked on fb and now i remember!!

FairyLightsForever · 04/05/2011 14:32

It's nice hearing how everyone else is doing, did you get things sorted with CSA this morning? I'm so lucky, ex is good with money, even if he's hopeless in other areas at times.

aurorastargazer · 04/05/2011 14:51

kind of. the lady i spoke to this mornign was very helpful though i'm getting bit fed up of having to explain what happened last year time and time again she was the only one that said when jobcentre has notified them of change in his circumstances, then the case will get passed to the employment department and will see about deduction of earnings that i've been requesting since last march (ffs)

aurorastargazer · 04/05/2011 14:55

she also said that she could see that he was 'inconsistent' with payment ( can pay, won't pay the right amount) and is now classed as non-compliant - whether or not that will sort things out, we shall have to wait and see but i intend to br more pro-active with csa and not just wait for them to sort htings out, i shall phone them weekly (and give dp some money for the calls!) if i have to

TitsalinaBumSquash · 04/05/2011 17:09

I am still here. Not sure what is going on with 'I' he says he wants to see me lots before he goes away, we are still chatting into the night most nights. I am going to go with the flow and deal with it in Sept.

elastamum · 04/05/2011 22:35

hi all, Its very quiet here...Had a fab weekend with GW. He got on really well with my kids and with my friends, and I havent scared him away. He said he loved it here!

Am off down south to see him again tomorrow. It has been such a long time since I felt this good about anyone. It is a lovely feeling.

tookoolforskool · 05/05/2011 09:42

tits- glad its going ok. maybe just take it for what it is and enjoy it for the time being?

Dont even ask me about mr big.... BUT i dont know if anyone remembers the art teacher from a few months back.

Well. i have a date :) hes very good looking. and is an art/photography teacher. Havent spoken to him for ages and ages but we were on msn last night and got chatting. And so we are going out.

aurorastargazer · 05/05/2011 14:42

yaaaaaaaaay for you all

aurorastargazer · 05/05/2011 14:44

could i ask for some help here for me please?

aurorastargazer · 07/05/2011 21:17

Flame · 08/05/2011 18:16

What?!!??! I thought Mr Big was happening?!!?

Not a lot to tell here. I have completely deleted my POF rather than just hiding it. It isn't for me. I WILL find someone, but I am going with accepting invites out more and just seeing where life takes me.

Smurf is fun, hit n miss as always but kept heart out this time round so it isn't an issue.

Carrot is Carrot.

The Samurai is on the scene (knew him when I was 17/18, bumped into him again when I was out on second date with Giger), but I can't see him being anything serious.

TitsalinaBumSquash · 09/05/2011 07:59

Quick update. 'I' is happening, I think I might be getting used to his hectic schedule. When were together he treats me like a princess, we still talk every single day. Don't get me wrong if I could keep him for ever I wouldn't think twice but I can't so have to enjoy what I have got of him while I have got it. He has the ability to make me feel safe and secure and totally at ease but also as high as a kite all at the same time. After seeing him I wake up with a huge grin on my face.

aurorastargazer · 11/05/2011 09:45

and where have all the fia ladies off this thread gone?

sincitylover · 11/05/2011 11:06

hi just popping in - its very quiet - Ive been busy with work and had a major problem with ds1 school this week - I might post about it in education.

Waves to all.

elastamum · 11/05/2011 12:07

Hi All, Seems very quiet here.

Just to update you, me and GW are going from strength to strength. Am very happy. Its been 3 years since my divorce and after all that time its lovely to be in a relationship with someone who feels 'right' for me. So different from all the other men I have dated. Importantly , my kids really like him and he also gets on well with my friends. He also has told his children about me and says they are happy for him to be seeing me.

Even though he is some distance away we still manage to see each other a couple of times a week. Are going away together soon and have been making plans for the summer holidays.

Seems Internet dating does work after all!

aurorastargazer · 11/05/2011 12:35

hi scl hope things opk with ds1? will check other thread later am off now
yay for elasta

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