Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 26)

[BlackFLAMECandle]

Oooh brand new thread!

Lol Lou :o

My ex was driving by on his way back from somewhere. He lives miles away from me. It was nice to see him again, needless to say he had just had another relationship breakdown.

I didn't intend to stay over last night but had a mix up over the journey. Think I've messed it up now because he seems to be ignoring me today. Not happy.

eve

Eve :( It's early days tho.

Ninah - I couldn't find you either and have pm'd you too.

Thanks for the sympathy FLF, it was really not a good moment - lost it bigtime. Small children plus balloons, not a good combo for me .

DS now gone to bed, which is huge relief as he has been acting up massively all w/e.

eve :( -git.

kdk - what a tosser. I've had similar. Do they actually think we will fall for that shite! Although they must get some success otherwise they wouldn't do it?

Marginally better than the 'hiya hun/babe' type posts.

Can I just say again, fab photos. Wouldn't it be great to do a singles thread meet, if we could make it?

I want to see the pics from Fri night and I'm not/won't be on Facebook :(

Had a phone chat with kiwi toyboy, didn't make any definite plans because I have been ill all weekend. Going to take tomorrow off and go see the doc. I googled my symptoms and I either have polio, ME, fibromylagia, HIV, AIDS or hepatitis A

• if we could all make it!

Good god lilac!!

Sometimes I think there's such a thing as too much information.

Should say fibromyalgia - can't type properly, my hands hurt!

Yes, please let's set another date and nothing will stop me being there this time.

Anyone on OKC, check out Ron1961 - topless pix bad enough but the man has no shame! (Didn't dare click on profile as don't want him thinking I'm interested so can't even say whether he's got anything worth writing about!)

He hasn't, kdk, I dared!

He doesn't actually say anything at all except to ask him anything you want to know. Perhaps I should ask him why he put a topless photo on there?

PS I bet a face flannel would have been enough, putting a towel there just gives you false hope

Tell him you can't see anything and could he supply a close-up - or lend you a magnifying glass?

Maybe he'll send me a message, apart from the 100 mile distance I meet all his criteria (well, he's not exactly choosy, is he?)

I'm not divorced yet, do you think I should change my status to married too?!

this is just what we're going through, with the added complication of children!

ew ew ew ew ew ew ew

kdk - I dare not click.

I agree topless pics are generally 'ew' and not a good sign. If I want to see your naked torso I will let you know, thanks.

Just his torso would have been soooooooooooooo much better.

If it's nudity I want, I'll go and browse the casual encounters section of craig's list.

Have had a chat and exchanged some texts with kiwi toyboy, and exchanged several messages from another guy from Lovestruck who seems very nice and very interested. He's even a couple of years older than me, which makes a change. Guess he needs a nickname too, in case he sticks around long enough (tbh, that would make a change too!) so I'll call him H&S since he's a Health and Safety consultant for major building projects.

HatGuy seems chatty enough, but feeling a bit meh about him. I want replies from EarlGrey or YesMan dammit.

Ninah have pm'd you.

Eve he is a man and unlike us they don't often see the urgency in sending messages etc so you may still hear from him.

Lilac Hope you get on ok at the doctors today.

I have to go and get the morning after pill as stupidly didn't think about all the antibiotics affecting my pill until it was too late.

I actually sent him a txt last night to tell him briefly what I found out re mix up, guess what, he didn't even acknowledge it . Am really surprised tbh, guess I thought it was a bit dodgy having to stay over on only the 2nd date, maybe he's judgemental. Even if he wasn't impressed, it's only good manners to reply and ask what happened. My own fault, I suppose.

Hi All,

Am just checking in, trying to catch up on everything!! about the friday night meet up. Am just too far away, but maybe one day will get a pass out for the whole night. eve about yr man not replying. Hate it when they do that sort of thing, still if you know now at least you can move on and not get messed around in the future.

Have had a couple of very nice dates last week but no sparks there and have another tomorrow with a chap who is a great laugh on the phone so I have high hopes we might even hit it off in person. Have picked a very nice pub just round the corner from mine so I dont even have to drive far. Fingers crossed

Elasta, that sounds promising, looking forward to an update!

eve, not your fault he's rude, it's his.

bnm, hope it works! (I have a friend who took it, she now has a 12yo DD )

Off to the docs soon, now I have worked out how to get there on the bus I am not sure I can be bothered and I might just get in the car anyway!

Elasta, that sounds promising, hope you hit it off. Trouble with internet dating is that you get so many messages from men that you have zero interest in, or you meet men in person who are perfectly nice but no spark. I'm quite fussy so when I meet someone I like I forget about the rules.

Sorry to angst about the other night but I certainly got the impression he liked me as well. Never mind, like you say I don't need to waste any time on someone who is blatantly rude!!!