Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 26)

[BlackFLAMECandle]

Oooh brand new thread!

Lol Lou :o

are there pictures?

i am wondering why the phantom pmmer didnt show his face on this thread for a bit of a dressing down?

Sorry I missed you all last night, hope you enjoyed yourselves - it sounds like a good night!

I went to bed early with a headache, could have done without DD here because she told me off for abandoning her downstairs. I didn't mean to, just shut my eyes for a moment.... Not much better today, I ache all over :(

Had a few texts from past contacts this week, though I had to search through my Vodafone records to find out who! Rugby guy sent one on Tuesday, ignored that completely. Kiwi toyboy sent one yesterday, which I replied to. He is grovelling and very keen to meet again. I haven't decided what to do, feel rotten and have the girls both here so no option really. I am torn between
a) forget it, you had your chance
b) grill him about what happened, and then decide
c) grill him about what happened, and then tell him to forget it once I've made him squirm

Lou - I have some photos in my phone but I can't find cable :( I could txt them if you like :) Mily took some too from what I can remember lol.

We've had a couple of brave strays on here haven't we :)

Am wondering where everyone is today, probably recovering lol.

Lilac did kiwi go quiet on you? remind me:)

Sorry you couldn't make it btw :(

Hope you're ok.

ooh yes monty i will pm you my number via mn!

i would just reply saying "sorry who is this?", which lets them know you havent been sitting about making lace whilst waiting for them to save you from your ivory tower

Hi All

Sorry I havent been about recovered from my ear infection then got a tooth abcess now a kidney infection Think am just very run down with all this hassle with exp

Sponge Sorry about the job.

Eve Hope you have a great time on your date.Nice to see you had missed me too

Flame pole dancing is fab but whenever i've done a class have been covered in bruises though i do bruise very easily.Glad having a good time in bristol.

Lou Great news about divorce papers and DDs date.

Nice to see you all that went had a fab time llast night.I was supposed to go to Kent with DG last night but he had to go without me due to more Exp drama.

On a positive note DG and i have decided to move in together after christmas.I'm moving area completely and i cannot wait.

Lou I just emailed you them from my phone. Did you get it? :)

great news bnm

i just got them monty they are fab, looks like you all had a good time :)

BNM - good news :)

Had an abscess recently. OMG no joke. Hope you feel better.

Lou :) isn't technology wonderful

Thanks Lou and Monty

Abscess is awful got to be on my top five of worst pains ever

it sure is monty

hope you feel better soon bnm

BNM, that's great news!

Monty, kiwi was the first guy I dated when I joined Lovestruck. After a few weeks of dating he spent the night at mine one weekend, then went a bit quiet on the Monday and by Tuesday evening told he he knew he couldn't have anything serious with me and had met someone (when, FFS?! He was with me all weekend!) he thought could turn into something long term. I was livid, and since he's on a two year visa, about five months through it already by now, how long term is long term anyway?

We did get on really well and I was disappointed as well as livid. I think maybe I'm only considering meeting up with him because there's no-one else on the scene right now.

Saw the pics from Fruday, lou sent them on. Looks like you had an excellent time - wish I was there and all that.

And as I said - blimey, we're a good looking bunch on here !

Hi bnm, don't know if we've talked before but much sympathy re the abcess, I've had one before and they're a real killer. Hope you feel better soon.

Have decided quietly to stop any contact with PMM (aka CM) as he is starting to get on my nerves. I won't tell him as can't be faffed with a drama performance.

Hi Janos no don't think i've spoken to you on this thread before.

DG just called to say he has two presents for me tomorrow to make up for not seeing me since wednesday.He has also got my christmas present and said it will link in with my birthday pressie.He said i will cry when i open them.Thats all the info i could get out of his drunk self.Now what on earth do i get him for christmas???

Talking of Christmas, help me out please if you have boys! I know where I am with girls!!

What do I get an 11 year old (in US) and 13 year old? Hoping to get away from Game voucher etc and do something more interesting, especially for the boy in America. Budget about a tenner, so that gives us loads of options

Beaut!!

You will all be relieved to hear that me and Carrot are done. Fabulous day together yesterday, think he is amazing but not enough (the spark was awol again). He is 50/50 too (and it turns out it isn't the kids... when he is sure we're right he is happy about them etc). Not pissing about any more though so we're set on leaving it. I am not upset today so I guess it is right. He's staying off sites though which probably helps. Told you i would get there eventually. Was an alcoholic needing the last drink though!

Beaut!!

You will all be relieved to hear that me and Carrot are done. Fabulous day together yesterday, think he is amazing but not enough (the spark was awol again). He is 50/50 too (and it turns out it isn't the kids... when he is sure we're right he is happy about them etc). Not pissing about any more though so we're set on leaving it. I am not upset today so I guess it is right. He's staying off sites though which probably helps. Told you i would get there eventually. Was an alcoholic needing the last drink though!

Flame Ah glad you are feeling ok about things.If you dont feel down then it obviously wasnt meant to be.Get some dates lined up.I thought i was going to get in some fun dating practice and never thought i would only get two dates not that im complaining of course.

DG is on his way back.I've exfoliated,waxed,moisturised and bathed in gorgeous perfume.Has taken a few hours of work though as i've felt so rubbish with this abscess.Cant wait now.

Wow beaut, congratulations!

Glad you finally know where you stand, flame and at the one last drink!

lilac, my first thought is lego? Not sure if that's just because my DS (13) still loves his (but is, by his own admission, geeky!)

Glad you all had a fab time on Friday, still hoping that one day I'll get a chance to meet you all...
Janos, any chance I could see the photos? You're my only FB friend on this thread
Oh, and you're right about just quietly dropping contact, somethimes it's the only way.

just realised that I changed my name after using an anagram creator on another thread... maybe too much Baileys last night!

Beaut, result pleased to hear you are very happy.

My date didn't go to plan. Journey problems and I ended up having to stay the night OMG that was a surprise. We haven't made plans to see each other again though for some reason it didn't crop up in conversation. Will be completely defalted if he doesn't contact me again.

Are the photos on facebook, will go and check but I would like to see them.

'deflated'

at journey problems, I hope you hear from him soon eve.

That's better, back in my normal guise again

Really did have journey problems, have sent an email complaining to the website that said there was a nonexistent train, they should compensate me for ruining my life and making me spend the night with a nm instead of making him beg for the chance. and at the same time.

Oh, sorry, I thought you'd just got carried away... I really hope he calls