Update on the interesting email (thanks for keeping up, bnm!)
This guy who is new to Lovestruck mailed me on Friday night, said he had upgraded from free mainly to get in touch with me after I winked at him. V long message, v open about his busy life and that he is not looking for a full-on commitment type relationship (I'm not divorced yet or close to it anyway).
He suggested that we talk on the phone this evening. I replied on the site, said I was free on Thursday and Friday evenings and some Saturdays and did that sound workable, as I can't bear to be way down the list and only see someone every three weeks or so. I know that he won't see that message til tomorrow as he'd told me that, but I decided to go with the phone call and sent him a text at 6 to say although I had replied on the site, I would like to talk this evening. He hasn't replied so far.
I really like the look of him and appreciate his honesty. I have to keep any relationship secret from my kids so I don't want to meet someone who wants to play happy families. Will let you know what happens!
I am still chatting to two others though, although the Yank is starting to creep me out a bit. He is back in London tomorrow but I think I prefer him in Dubai...
On top of this married male friend is coming on to me 
Now I know he really is desperately unhappy at home, I knew that 18 months ago because we had v frank conversations and I do fancy him but I am NOT going to do anything about it.