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Pamela thread 6 - Bile Duct Cancer, Continued

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WilsonMilson · 23/07/2023 09:26

Hi all

It’s Kerr here, I wanted to post a quick update as I’m conscious Pamela hasn’t been on for a few days and the thread seems to have reached its limit.

Pamela hasn’t been feeling so good over the last few days - on a positive note, her bloods seem to have stabilised and, all being well, she might be ok for chemo round 2 in the next couple of days. She had a blood transfusion yesterday which, we hope, will also boost her energy levels. On the downside, her jaundice has returned, the bilirubin levels are increasing significantly. The CT scan at the beginning of the week showed no new blockages and our Consultant thought that some early necrosis of the tumour after the last chemo might be contributing, but nobody really knows what’s causing it. Further discussion to take place tomorrow. Seeing the jaundice is one of the worst parts of this, it’s so clear and obvious when it’s happening yet there’s nothing we can do to alleviate it.

Just wanted to let you know the latest. Please, please keep praying for her - she’s my everything, my world, and every thought and prayer is deeply appreciated.

Kerr

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ShinyHappyTits · 23/07/2023 14:58

Oh bless all three of you. The fact that there's an army of mumsnetters holding you all in their thoughts every day shows how special Pamela is, although we've obviously seen only a fraction of what you know. We are all hoping so hard for her to turn a corner. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers x

Sagaris · 23/07/2023 15:07

Another new poster here - I've followed all the other threads. Wishing you and your family all the best, and that the treatment improves things for you. X

Claireshh · 23/07/2023 15:10

Thank you for letting us know how things are with Pamela. I hope there is some more clarity in the coming days and that chemo can continue. Thinking of you all. X

rainbowstardrops · 23/07/2023 15:18

Thank you so much for updating Kerr as there are many, many people on MN who are willing for the best for Pamela, you and Jacob and of course her mum and nan etc.
I hope that Pamela will be buoyed by the fact that we're all still behind you all.
Take care Flowers

FudgeMcFlurry · 23/07/2023 15:21

Another one to say thank you so much for updating and I really hope Pamela can continue to draw strength from these threads. Thinking of you all.

Lizzie Xxx

Pansypotter123 · 23/07/2023 15:21

Thank you for this update, Kerr. I truly hope that Pamela can have more treatment tomorrow. Sending all of you lots of love and prayers xxx 💕xxx

clareth · 23/07/2023 15:25

💐Thinking of you all

howrudeforme · 23/07/2023 15:29

Praying and sending positive thoughts to you all. Xxxx

RosyCheekedBird · 23/07/2023 15:34

Sending hugely positive best wishes and thank you for updating us. Pamela has got thousands of MNetters rooting for her!

Iloveringos · 23/07/2023 15:37

So appreciative of the update Kerr, sending you both lots of love and good wishes 🌹🌹

CrotchetyQuaver · 23/07/2023 15:41

Thanks for the update Kerr, sending much love to you both
Penny xx

SlightlyJaded · 23/07/2023 15:57

Thank you for taking the time and trouble to start a new thread and update us Kerr. Pamela is in my thoughts and prayers every day and along with everyone else, I am rooting for you all so so hard.

I'm glad she has you. You sound wonderful - no less than she deserves.

Everything crossed that the Jaundice starts to abate and that Chemo can go ahead.

strawberryjam99 · 23/07/2023 16:19

Thank you for the update. Sending love and positive vibes to Pamela and your family x

Cloudhopping · 23/07/2023 16:23

Love to Pamela, thank you so much for the update Kerr. Thinking of you all.x

carly2803 · 23/07/2023 16:24

Thanks for the update Kerr. Pamela (and you/jacob) have been in my thoughts the last few weeks and I am keeping positive thinking for her.

Take care, sleep and rest as much as you can. She needs you strong.

Gingerbreadandtea · 23/07/2023 16:24

Thank you so much Kerr for letting us know, I'm sure you have enough on your plate without worrying about updating a bunch of mumsnetters but it is truly appreciated. Pamela has been a constant thought for me, and she is also constantly in my prayers. Unfortunately I have experience of watching loved ones fighting cancer, so I know how exhausted and worried you and your family are about her. Thinking and praying for you all and wishing Pamela the very best in the next few days.❤

SquirrelSoShiny · 23/07/2023 16:27

Kerr I'm so happy to see your update. Thinking of Pamela and your family every single day Flowers

Bippertyboo2 · 23/07/2023 16:30

You are all in my thoughts and prayers everyday, god bless you all

Yogity · 23/07/2023 16:38

Thanks for the update Kerr. I have been checking every day.
Holding you all in my thoughts

dontsayltb · 23/07/2023 16:41

Thank you so much Kerr for taking the time to update us. Another one here who has been thinking of you all, and following Pamela's progress from the outset. (Also another Pamela).
I'll go and light another candle now. Hopefully the sheer strength of will power from all of us who care will keep Pamela going. Love and strength to you all.

Stigsmother · 23/07/2023 16:44

Thanks for the update Kerr, live and prayers to you all

knobheed99 · 23/07/2023 16:46

Thinking of you all x

Leafytrees · 23/07/2023 16:46

Thinking of you Pamela and really hoping you can have the next round of chemo and start to see some improvements soon.

crowsfeet57 · 23/07/2023 16:46

Thank you so much for posting Kerr. I think of Pamela everyday and I'm remembering you all in my prayers.

PhoenixIsFlying · 23/07/2023 16:46

Thank you Kerr so much for letting us know. I have been thinking of you all every day. We keep praying for Pamela. ❤️

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