DH has had brain tumour for years and today, for the first time, I'm genuinely scared.

[PlantPhoenix]

We've coped with surgery, coped with life getting back to normal, coped with regrowth, radio /chemo and resultant fatigue, coped with shielding. And now he has new tumours, has started chemo but his mobility is increasingly impaired by a lack of balance. And tonight, having watched him wobble about all weekend, and I think probably getting worse, I've realised that I'm scared. So scared.

So sad to read that. It's so hard for you to have to cope with this, I wish you and your family strength going forward.

So sorry to hear this.

I'm so sorry to read this. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Such a sad and difficult time for your whole family.

I'm so sorry for what you are going through I had this with my mam and it was very scary seeing her go downhill. Hopefully he has a good care team who will make him as comfortable as possible. I wish I had words to offer comfort at this difficult time just take whatever support you are offered ❤️

I'm so sorry to hear this as well. I've trodden this path and know how painful it is for all of you. I don't have any advice really, except to say that you and the children will be everything to him now so if any joy can be wrung out of Christmas, try to wring it out. Plus ask for, fight for and try to get any help you can, as not sleeping/caring for someone is very tiring indeed.

I'm so sorry that you're going through this

So sorry it's not fair I know

So sorry to hear that. It must be really hard to get your head around. Off load on here we can listen without judgement xx sending you a massive hug

I don't know what to say OP other than I am so sorry to read this

Hugs to you for all the use they are

Oh Plant, I am so, so sorry.

Sending love, enjoy Christmas as much as you can, can you get a holiday in? If I knew you I would look after your DC x

I am so sorry to hear this. xx

I am so sorry to read this. It’s utterly shit. There are no words. But as you know the support here is constant. Anytime. Day or night.

I'm so sorry you've had this news. Sending positive thoughts and love to you and your family x

Oh plant - I'm so sorry. What awful news for you. Thinking of you xxx

So very sorry to hear this.

I'm really sorry .

Use MN to let it all out.

Next: are either of you you getting any emotional or practical support from Macmillan, Maggies Centre, local Hospice, other cancer charities?

Have you both got your legal/financial ducks in a row ( money, bank, , Wills, Advance Directive, Power of Attorney. If not, do it now while he still has capacity.

I’m so sorry 😞

Oh no. I’m so sorry. No words will make up for this. We’re still here for ranting. A safe space where you are not judged.
Thinking of you all ✨

I’m so sorry

@PlantPhoenix - I’m so sorry. You sound like an amazing wife and mother. Your strength will give your DH strength. Look after yourself and make this Xmas special.

I'm so sorry to hear that, you sound like an amazing, supportive family. Sending you all so much love

I’m so sorry