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Husband now terminal

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Nifflerbowtruckle · 03/10/2017 19:19

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do Sad. How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken Sad

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fanniboz · 09/12/2017 21:55

We're all here for you Thanks

NearlyEaster · 09/12/2017 21:56

Thinking of you all. So sorry 💐

Amber0685 · 09/12/2017 21:57

Thinking of you. I hope DH is as comfortable as possible

strongswans · 09/12/2017 21:59

Thinking of you all tonight. You are in my prayers.

KeziaOAP · 09/12/2017 22:02

Thoughts and prayers with you and your DH.

Yorkshirebornandbread · 09/12/2017 22:19

My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight, I will light a candle tomorrow for you and your DH.

LavenderDoll · 09/12/2017 22:22

Thinking of you both

letsdolunch321 · 09/12/2017 22:32

So sorry to read this, Hope your DH’s passing is calm for you all.

Sending you big hugs Flowers

nixso29 · 09/12/2017 22:42

Thinking of you xo

Grace1980 · 09/12/2017 22:47

You are all in my prayers. Xx

CatsCatsCats11 · 09/12/2017 22:47

Thinking of you all niffler xx

Dweet1259 · 09/12/2017 22:58

OP you are brave beyond measure. What an incredible, devoted wife and I'm sure your husband is so immensely proud of you. Prayers are with you all tonight.

MrsMozart · 09/12/2017 23:02

Still here for you lass. Sitting quietly with you.

sugaredstrawberries · 09/12/2017 23:05

I've just read your thread start to finish and I do not know what to say other than I am so so so sorry you are all going through this. Keep talking, let it all out, we are here for you and of course, thoughts and prayers for you all at this time SadThanks

iboughtsnowboots · 09/12/2017 23:09

Thinking of you. Wishing you and your dh peace.

AvonCallingBarksdale · 09/12/2017 23:20

Thinking of you and your DH. May his journey be gentle Flowers

WeeM · 09/12/2017 23:31

I remember reading your thread before and just came across it again tonight...I really don’t have the words. You and your family are all in my thoughts Flowers

chelsbells · 09/12/2017 23:37

Thinking of you both Thanks

ijustwantfiveminutespeace · 09/12/2017 23:44

In our prayers. X

tomatopuree · 09/12/2017 23:45

Niffler I wish I had words. Huge hugs. X

Poisongirl81 · 09/12/2017 23:49

Hello sweetheart, you are so unbelievablely strong. I have no words but am thinking of you x x

FluffyFerrets · 09/12/2017 23:52

Thinking of you Niffler. xx

PurpleAlerts · 09/12/2017 23:55

Have been following your difficult but inspiring story for a while. Hope your night is peaceful . X

saladdays66 · 09/12/2017 23:59

All my sympathy to you - and to your h's mum. Wishing you a peaceful night. Flowers

Lostflipflop · 10/12/2017 00:02

Thinking of you Flowers

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