Husband now terminal

[Nifflerbowtruckle]

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do . How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken

I am so very very sorry for you and your lovely husband, Niffler.

I can't offer any physical help, but know that I am thinking of you and your DH and families from afar and hope that you are coping as best possible. I honestly have no idea how I would cope in a similar situation, I think you are all incredibly strong (even though you might not think it) and with such dignity. x

The nurses have been out today and because he isn't agitated with his confusion they said there is no point doing anything (I agree). He had a lump thing on his side which is white. They think it is fluid filled but don't know why. It could be that the cancer is in his lungs now. They are going to get the doc out to him sometime this week but think there isn't anything to be done.

I'm so sorry Niffler. Hopefully the doctor will be able to offer some reassurance that the cancer hasn't spread.

So hard niffler. Thinking of you all. I hope he is comfortable.

Thinking of you - such a horrible time for you. No words can give you comfort but my heart goes out to you x

Hello.. just wanted to say hi, and hope you're all coping ok today. How is your lovely dog?

Thinking of you every day Niffler. Hope the family visit went ok and people were able to feel they said their goodbyes. I'm so so sorry, can't imagine how tough this is.

Thinking of you

Thinking of you...

What a situation, I'm so sorry,

My parents and sister came yesterday. My dad was utterly devastated it was hard to see. My mum and sister were obviously upset too but my dad is broken.

Afternoon Niffler

How are you today? How is your dog doing? I'm sure it's a sign of how much your dad loves you both that he's so devastated.

Niffler, I hope it helps that so many people are thinking of you are this time.

Checking on how you're doing lass.

It's so hard when people we love are hurting. Please though, remember to take care of yourself.

Your family obviously love you both very much. Please remember you don't have to stay strong for everybody else all of the time. Take care.

Huge hugs and thoughts x

Thinking of you

You and your dh are in my thoughts. I'm pleased you have people around you, you're coping amazingly well with a terribly sad situation.
Thinking of you and your dh

Sending you all the love in the world. I am so sorry this is happening to you and your lovely dh.

Thinking of you.

Your dad must be hurting so much for you, difficult I know to see but it shows how much he cares about you and your DH.

Thinking of you and your DH