Husband now terminal

[Nifflerbowtruckle]

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do . How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken

Thinking of you, your DH and your lovely dog. I wish you all peace

Oh sweetie. I'm so sorry it's come to this xxx

Hoping your day is going as well as expected and your husband is having a good (pain free ) day. 🌷🌷

Sending strength and warm wishes at this horrible time.

Just want to say I’m thinking of you all xx

How are you both today Niffler?

We are both okay. He's still the same as yesterday. He keeps telling everyone he loves them just in case he passes when they are out. He fell asleep with his head on his dads shoulder earlier which I think his dad liked and was upset about in equal measure.

I'm so sorry. You sound so strong. Make sure you have someone caring for you too.

Been thinking of you both today.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Your poor dh, and poor you You are so so brave.

My thoughts are with you both xxxx

I am so full of admiration for you. I am glad that his family are there with you.

May peace and calm be with you and your DH Niffler. May he be pain free and comfortable and go to his final rest surrounded by love and light. We are here for you and thinking of you xx

Sending love today Niffler

Sending hugs and love to you all 💐

Love to all of you.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Thinking of the two of you and your families.

Nifflerbowtruckle I hope you are coping through this extremely difficult time.
Thinking of you x

Really sorry about your awful news. I have no advice on how to cope with the emotional side of things but would ask you to sort out the practical stuff now. I recently had to help a couple in their last weekend together struggling to get a Will done, put bank accounts into joint names etc. It was awful that during a time that they should have been able to spend together without any extra stress they had to think about sorting out those things.

It's getting harder now he's needing more personal care. His legs can barely support him now.

Wills aren't a problem since we have no assets. The only iffy point will be his bank account. I'm transferring most of the money into mine regularly though just leaving enough for bills so that there won't be lots of money left over.

You, your husband and his family continue to be in my thoughts. Hugs. X

Heartfelt thoughts to you and your DH and family.

Still thinking of you Niffler. Is there anything we can do ?

Thinking of you all

My mum became unable to get to the loo in time. If your having a nurse visit she could arrange a commode for him.