Husband now terminal

[Nifflerbowtruckle]

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do . How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken

Another here that has been following your thread niffler

I'm so sorry that you and your dh are facing this. Sending you much love. My heart goes out to you and everyone that loves you both.

You sound so brave and loving. Take it a minute at a time if need be. It's great the family have been able to spend some time together. Look after yourself as much as you can - eat/drink/rest. Thinking of you..

Oh Niffler, I have no words. Just been reading your posts and I'm utterly heartbroken 💔 for you. Life is so very cruel. I hope that your DH doesn't suffer and that he is pain free soon and that you and his family get all the love and support you need at this terrible time. He is so young. I'm so so sorry you're going through this. I hope your last moments together are very special xxxx

Sending you lots of love and strength xx

Thinking of you and your DH.

Thinking of you Niffler. X ♥

I have just read your thread from start to here. I am so sorry you are all going through this. Your love and consideration for your dh shines through every single one of your posts.

Thinking of you all.
Wishing you strength and peace.

DH is still doing okay-ish. I told the nurse that I thought he would suddenly get much worse and then pass. That I didn't think he would linger in active dying and she said young people tend to do well for a while and then suddenly deteriorate. She also said young people don't tend to last long in active dying which is obviously best as I don't want him suffering.

Sending you love and strength

Thinking of you

My heart goes out to you

Thinking of you Niffler

Thinking of you all

Thinking of you all and dear dog

Sending love 💕 make sure you are looking after you too

Wishing you strength niffler. Hope you’re managing to remember to eat and keep hydrated. It’s easy to forget. Hugs.

My.heart goes out to you and your family.

. I have no words for how brave you are. Love, light, thoughts, hugs.

love to you all

Another one who is popping up just to wish you love and strength.

Sending hugs to you all x

Sending love to you all. It's been heartbreaking to read this thread but the love you feel for your DH and the care, kindness and courage you have within you have shone through with every post.

Thinking of you as I've walked in your shoes so know exactly what it's like....something I wish nobody had to go through, specially your DH.

Life's not fair sometimes....

So sorry op 💐