Husband now terminal

[Nifflerbowtruckle]

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do . How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken

niffler thinking of you both and sending love and hope you have the support you need

Thinking of you. Hope you managed to get some rest over night.

Thinking if you this morning, Niffler.

I am so sorry to read this. .

Sending hugs and hoping DH is comfortable.

I really wish you and your DH peace, OP.

Nurses have been out today to see him. He is comfortable but very sleepy. I don't think it will be long before he passes. We are all downstairs so he can rest.

Very much thinking of you Niffler and your DH, sending you love and hugs x

Sending thoughts even though they can't do anything .

I’ve been following this thread but haven’t posted before. I’m so sorry this is happening to you all. What a terribly cruel disease this is. You and your DH are very much in my thoughts

Thinking of you both. I hope the end is as painless and comfortable as it can be.

Wishing you peace and strength. xx

No words, just hugs

Best wishes

Thinking of you, there are no words x

Im so sorry for what you are going through. I wish you strength at this awful time

Hugs to you niffler. And to anyone else for whom this thread resonates. There are a lot of us out there too. My tears haven't stopped for a while thinking about what you are going through OP. Been there, done that.

Gently saying this, but I presume you are well aware and are doing it, but talk to him, tell him he is deeply loved and give permission to go. He will probably hang on until parents arrive.

All my thoughts and tears (sorry) are with you. He is so young. So sad.

My apologies OP, I missed the post where you said his parents had arrived.

That is good that you are all together.

You and DH are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sending peaceful thoughts.

Even though you have people around you - it's a very lonely experience. Be kind to yourself and take up offers of dog walking, meals made for you etc.

Oh Niffler I've been following your thread and I'm so sorry you and your dh are going through this, I can't begin to understand what you're going through. You and your dh are in my thoughts

Have followed this thread on and off. Am thinking of you x

My thoughts are with you at this difficult time... I am amazed by your courage, your are doing so well.
Love to all of you. X

You are both so brave. Take care x

Thinking of you at this extremely difficult time