Husband now terminal

[Nifflerbowtruckle]

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do . How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken

Sending lots of love to you all x

I'm so sorry Niffler. Does your dh know he has lots of strangers who are wishing him well?

Wishing you strength and courage, my lovely.

I am so sorry, wishing you as much peace as is possible.

Just RTFT Niffler . No real words of comfort that haven't already been said but to you both. I'm so sorry and I hope your little dog is doing better now.

The syringe driver allowed my DH to be pain free Nifflerbowtruckle x

You’re both in my thoughts Niffler

Be gentle to yourself xx

My thoughts are with you both

So very sorry, have been thinking of you both every day but not posted here before. Hoping your brave and courageous husband gets some relief and comfort when the syringe pump arrives. Love to you both. Xx

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The doctor has offered some oral cyclizine and has upped his pain meds as he really doesn't want a syringe driver so he is going to try those tomorrow after his next injection of cyclizine. His parents are here and we've all exchanged gifts and he told everyone he loves them.

Aww @Nifflerbowtruckle thoughts to you just now. It's so hard to act brave when you want to crumble.
Remember we are all here for you!

Thinking of you all

Just wanted to send you love.
I am so sorry you and your DH are going through this.
I lost my 27 year old son last year and my heart aches for you.
I hope your family can support each other through this.

You are so brave, thinking of you

I am so sorry; thinking of you both xxx

for you and DH xxxx

Not sure if I should say this... I don’t mean to upset you but wish someone had mentioned it to me.
I was with my mum as she died and the nurses talked of how her hearing was the last to go which tbf I knew, but I wish I’d thought more about what I wanted the last words my Mum heard to be, as I rambled. Just a thought for you. Huge hugs x

Thinking of you and your DH, Niffler. Many hugs from the antipodes.

I'm so terribly sorry you are all going through this. Absolutely heartbreaking. You're all in my thoughts x

Sending you all lots of love 💕

Also thinking of you and sending love x

Oh my love, I’m so sorry. I hoped you would have more time. I’ll be thinking if you.

Occasionally on this forum there are threads that move me to tears, and this is one of them. Niffler - you and your husband are so brave. It's so unfair that this is happening to you both. Sending you love, light and good wishes.