Thank you for your reply. I am, as always, very grateful.
I do think the approach they have taken is a bit odd. Their communication hasn't been good - despite initial assurances that they would write to me explaining what was happening and why, in practice they have been reluctant to do so. They have sent me some information by email but the rest has been in face to face meetings. Lots of questions remain unanswered (eg which of the reasonable adjustments they can't accommodate and why) but the overall message is clear - they would like me to leave.
I understand they don't want me to continue working for them. I suppose this is the inevitable consequence of raising an ET (I did do it reluctantly after working for them for over twenty years but I felt I had no alternative - it couldn't continue as it was). My performance and attendance are okay/ no issues so I suppose dismissing me because of my disability/reasonable adjustments was the only grounds on which they felt they could act, but it feels odd given I have already raised an ET claim about discrimination and victimisation.
I would probably have taken the 50k (despite it being less than the schedule of loss ) just to get it over with but given the dismissal issue feel I probably can't (it is also much less than I would have got had I been made redundant). Disappointingly they have given me a tight deadline for responding to the offer (despite the hearing not being until next year) so I am feeling a bit pressured by it all.
It all feels a mess and I am not very clear on my options eg would I just expand my existing ET claim if I was dismissed (continuous action) or have to raise a new one. I suppose these are issues for a lawyer but those I have spoken to so far are expensive- saying they would need a hefty payment just to read the documents. I will keep looking for an employment lawyer, try the law clinics once they open after the summer break and do some research online. All a bit tricky.
I am sorry if this is a bit rambling - I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by it all (life changing stuff) and I haven't really got anyone to speak to irl.
Anyway thanks again for all your help and patience with me. I really do appreciate it.