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Confused about police action

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W0rri3d · 10/01/2024 21:22

A loved one is potentially in trouble with the police. They had been invited to give an interview under caution, but have now been told that told that a decision on being charged etc can be made without even talking to them (is all being based on statements from the people who reported it, and CCTV). Myself and a few friends were also a witness to their "crime" and are being refused a chance to give our own statements. The police are also saying he can not have an appropriate adult if he comes into the station for interview (he is autistic, is entitled to an appropriate adult, and carries a card to say this).

BTW, the crime was having an autistic meltdown in public. My loved one was overwhelmed, tried to escape the situation but was shouted/grabbed at, so had a full meltdown involving shouting and throwing items. He was then forced to the floor by someone not even trained in restraint.

It all seems horribly unfair and one sided. The people who gave statements have since been spreading lies about him, and one is now in psychiatric hospital.

I am worried sick about all of this.

Anyone savvy with matters like this... any words of comfort or advice most welcome.

Thanks

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W0rri3d · 02/03/2024 21:36

prh47bridge · 01/03/2024 07:41

The reasons do matter. For someone to be guilty of assault, they must have intended unlawful violence or been reckless. In other words, they must have criminal intent. The action on its own is not enough. From OP's posts, it appears her boyfriend did not have the necessary criminal intent.

Thank you. He was melting down, was in a huge sensory overwhelm. Everything hurts when you are like that. People shouting at him, and grabbing at him - he is defending himself from that even if he does not realise that at the time.

From what he has told me, this initial court date is a hearing to see if it goes further.

His charges are public disorder (the shouting and waving his arms about), and criminal damage (he made a pool table collapse by falling onto it. Said pool table is a small one that has collapsed in the past when people were just playing pool).

It is ridiculous that it is even going this far (court wise), when you have victims of serious crimes begging for recognition and justice.

I am worried about his hearing. He really struggled during his police interview. He would possibly get very distressed in court too.

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