Hello,
My daughter was 18 in February, had been with her BF for 18 mths and they booked a holiday together for after their A-level exams in Greece.
DD paid for the trip upfront and he was going to pay her back, she had £4K child trust fund on her birthday. The holiday was £1200.
He ended it two weeks ago, right before her first exam and we are just beginning to see the light and get angry.
He has said today that if she cancels the holiday, he’ll pay half, if she’s goes with someone else, he’ll pay nothing.
I think this is unreasonable as she will have to find someone to go with, pay transfer fees for a name change all at short notice.
If she cancels, she wouldn’t get a refund.
the holiday is booked with LoveHoliday.com
Any ideas or suggestions on her rights, if any, would be great 😬
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LockdownBride · 06/06/2022 18:59
LockdownBride · 06/06/2022 19:13
It’s more that the cost will go up with a name transfer, and it’s the holiday they picked together. To find a friend who has a spare £600 + fees to go on a holiday they didn’t have a choice in, is a big ask.
she’s also not really wanting to go somewhere they’d planned on going together with someone else.
She’ll get no money back if she cancels, she’d be down £600 at least.
LockdownBride · 06/06/2022 19:21
I totally get that, she’s also allowed to feel anger at being hurt and having plans broken and changed, as well as her heart.
He cheated on her. They’re 18, shit happens, she’ll get over it but he should pay for what he committed to and not leave her high and dry.
I think she will cut her losses, cancel and get no refund but get him to pay his half, at least then she gets something. She’s still down £600.
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DelphiniumBlue · 06/06/2022 19:28
He should have paid her half already. If he had done what he promised, he would be asking her to find someone to take his place, not telling her that he's not paying if she does find someone .
I'd be suggesting that he pays her what he said he would, and then if she does find someone to go with her, she can pay him back.
He owes her his half whatever she does with it. He's the one cancelling. Why should she go short?
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