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IVF - May

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TheSnufflet · 31/03/2021 14:55

Couldn't see a thread for May so I thought I'd start one!

Anyone else doing their cycle in May? I just got my calendar through and all the injections look extremely Not Fun (this is my first time doing it) 😕

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strawberrysummer19 · 21/05/2021 18:47

@Louweeze oh lovely! Good for you x

@VenusStarr my friend is very happy now! We are generally good. Supplements and hematite whenever we can so I figured a nice Thai

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VenusStarr · 21/05/2021 18:47

Just the one going back tomorrow @Louweeze 🙏 I hope they're all OK x

VenusStarr · 21/05/2021 18:49

Enjoy @strawberrysummer19 😋

DoctorBambino · 21/05/2021 19:45

@VenusStarr I'm also on utrogestan and know what you mean about absorption. For my transfer they just cleaned my cervix before transferring the embryo. I think they're probably used to it! Good luck for tomorrow!

In other news, I totally broke my not testing early plans and tested yesterday and today (5 and 6dp5dt). Very faint bfp yesterday and significantly darker today! Hoping it sticks, otd not until next Wednesday!

FingersXssd83 · 21/05/2021 19:47

Sorry haven't been on here for a while. Feels impossible to keep up to speed but hope everyone is doing ok.

I got 3 eggs today. Feeling very low and wondering why the hell I put myself through all this.

VenusStarr · 21/05/2021 19:48

Fantastic news @DoctorBambino 🥳❤️ so pleased for you. X

That's good news about the pessary, although the cervix clean sounds 😬😑 haha x

Louweeze · 21/05/2021 19:58

@FingersXssd83 don't be disheartened it's all about the quality! It only takes one!!!

Scirocco · 21/05/2021 20:10

@strawberrysummer19 a takeaway sounds like a great treat. In fact, I've just finished mine - Lebanese hummus, chicken and salad. 👍

Hoping4baby21 · 21/05/2021 20:13

@DoctorBambino congrats that is great news 🎉🎉

@VenusStar good luck for transfer tomorrow!

@FingersXssd83 I'm sorry your feeling low today as some of the other ladies ha e said it only takes one and you have more than that. Fingers crossed that you get some good news over the next few days.

Had my first scan today and I totally forgot to ask the sizes!!! So silly! But she said I had 13 follicles and 7 are in the lead but the gap isn't too big so hoping a few more catch up. I'll be sure to ask the sizes on Mondays scan. I had to start cetrocide today! And boy does that injection sting/itch afterwards. I wasn't minding the injections so far but I'm not going to be looking forward to that every morning!

They said they might up my does but decided not to in the end not sure if that's a good sign or not. I have a high AFC so I was expecting more but also scared about OHSS risk so happy with my 13 to be honest.

VenusStarr · 21/05/2021 21:04

Sorry, I missed your post earlier @FingersXssd83 nothing about this process is easy ❤️ I hope you get good news tomorrow morning. Be kind to yourself xx

Great news @Hoping4baby21 🤞 for Monday. I agree, cetrotide was a bugger! Once I had a big, red itchy raised patch for 2 hours! Don't miss that one!

Coops0406 · 22/05/2021 07:43

@VenusStarr good luck for today!! 😁

@FingersXssd83 keep going, it will all be totally worth it in the end. This whole fertility journey feels impossible sometimes.

@DoctorBambino congrats and fingers crossed it stays and that line gets darker!

I am finally coming to the end of what has seemed like the longest 3 weeks on norithisterone! And the bloating has calmed down this last week, but I daren't go on the scales though as I put on 3kg in 2 weeks on these...I'm hoping it's water retention or something. Last tablets tomorrow then wait for AF and finally get to start injections next Saturday 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

FingersXssd83 · 22/05/2021 09:34

Thank you ladies. All three eggs were mature and two have fertilised so need to decide if we do a day three transfer or try to push onto day five 🐣🐣

strawberrysummer19 · 22/05/2021 09:54

@FingersXssd83 yay that's brilliant

Can I ask a question on that - who's decision is it you transfer at 3 or 5 and what's the reasons behind it?

I'm only asking that if I get to EC next Wednesday ( scan is Monday to decide if my follies have grown enough to ) then 3 days is Saturday which is fine ( assuming they count Wednesday as day one ?) but 5 days will be Sunday which I think my clinic is closed and then bank holiday Monday ?

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Louweeze · 22/05/2021 10:11

@strawberrysummer19 I'm the exact same EC on Wednesday! I think the clinics are not open generally (like routine blood tests and scans and stuff) but for day specific stuff like Embryo tranfer they are open to do that! I know this because my mum had ivf at the same clinic as I'm now at (28 years ago) and she had her Embryo transfer on a Sunday when they aren't normally open. I'm sure your clinic will be the same.

Also stupid question but is day one Wednesday because they fertilise the egg the same day as egg collection? Which would make day 3 Friday and day 5 Sunday? I'm getting really confused by the days.

Alexm06 · 22/05/2021 10:20

@strawberrysummer19 @Louweeze my egg collection should be Thursday! Providing all is good on the Tuesday. I believe day 1 is the day after as I think if I have a 5 day transfer it would be Tuesday. I maybe wrong though but I think that's how it was done on my last cycle.

Does anyone else's clinic not tell them how big the follicles are? On my last cycle I was told all sizes but this time they haven't been saying much just how it's all generally looks.

FingersXssd83 · 22/05/2021 10:37

Thanks @strawberrysummer19 at least there's two and I'll hopefully get to transfer.

If your EC is Weds then Thursday will be day 1 after fertilisation has occurred so don't worry if your clinic is closed on a Sunday as you'll prob either be a Sat or Monday.

We will choose what do do based on recommendations from our consultant and embryologist.

They decide whether to let you get to day 5 based on how many embryos you have and their quality. They would rather you get to day 5, as blasts have more potential and they are better at selecting the best ones at that point.

strawberrysummer19 · 22/05/2021 11:33

Ah I see that all makes sense.

So they count from day after the transfer.

With bank holiday Monday I was also curious but I guess time will tell !

Good luck for everyone going through scans and ec.

Sending positive vibes xx

TheDutchess3 · 22/05/2021 11:43

Hello everyone, new to the forum and wanted to say hi. I am in my second ICSI trajectory, OFT 26 May.

TheDutchess3 · 22/05/2021 11:49

Our first ICSI was in March. Only 5 eggs collected, 5 injected, 3 fertilised, 1 blastocyst fresh transfer and no luck.
Second round 16 eggs collected, 8 injected, 5 fertilised, 1 day 3 fresh transfer, 3 day 3 frozen, 1 blastocyst frozen.
So many disappointments along the way, with the clinic and the course of treatment, with the waiting time, etc. Switched to a different clinic for the 2nd ICSI.

Louweeze · 22/05/2021 12:02

Hi @TheDutchess3 welcome ☺ wow thats a great amount of frozties from your second round, heres hoping round 2 works for you! We're currently part way though our first icsi so everything is really new and I'm still learning a lot about how the process works. Can I ask how they decide which to freeze at 3 days and which to let continue to 5 days?

Louweeze · 22/05/2021 12:05

Also that's a really big difference in eggs collected between 1sr and 2nd cycle did they change the protocol?

FingersXssd83 · 22/05/2021 12:14

That's interesting that they also froze your embryos on day 3 @TheDutchess3

Our embryologist and consultant were at odds over this as the embryologist said that freezing day 3s are never clinically indicted.

However our doctor wanted us to freeze them as I had a suspected endometrioma and we only had 4 so wanted to give us the best chance.

Do you mind me asking why you also had day 3s frozen?

Louweeze · 22/05/2021 12:53

@Alexm06 eek exciting it's all feeling real now isn't it? OK thanks for clearing that up I was getting myself really confused about the days 🤣

TheDutchess3 · 22/05/2021 13:05

Thank you!xx
I read so much in the past year about different clinics and the treatments they provide that I am almost an expert:) The doctors are always commenting that I know a lot about the process.

The first protocol was short, on Menopur 150+Decapeptyl 0,1. I only injected Menopur for 7 days, came to my 1st ultrasound and they scheduled the trigger for the same day. The largest follicules were 18 at that moment, but there were still 3 that were under 15 and could use some growth. I think they should have waited with the puncture...

For the second protocol we switched to a different clinic. The protocol was also short, but with a different FSH medicine and the increased dosage: Gonal F 225+Decapeptyl 0,1. Here on my second ultrasound I had follicules of 20, 21 and they still said to continue with Gonal F for 1 more day for the other ones to grow...

Now about freezing. @LouweezeI @FingersXssd83
I am doing IVF in the Netherlands and here they say there is currently no evidence that day 5 is more beneficial for all types of cycles: fresh and cryo. The previous studies only showed some preference for the day 5 fresh transfer. Therefore there is currently a national study across different clinics called ToF (three or five) where they investigate both fresh+cryo cycles.

Here is an abstract from the description of this research:
"Previous research into an embryo transfer on day 3 or on day 5 often only looked at the fresh first embryo transfer. The results of cryo (a frozen embryo) treatments were often not included in this. In the TOF care evaluation, we will look at the difference in the number of pregnancies and the number of children born between an embryo transfer on day 3 and day 5, including all frozen embryos. This is also referred to as the cumulative percentage of live births".
You can read more about it here (use Chrome browser, right click and choose Translate to English):
www.zorgevaluatienederland.nl/evaluations/tof

Our first clinic has recently started doing only day 5 ET and freezing, therefore from 3 embryos on day 3 we were left with 1 on day 5. They waited 1 more day to see if the other two catch up but they didn't, so they didn't freeze them in the end.

Our second clinic is doing day 3 ET and freezing on day 3, 4 or 5 (like most clinics in the Netherlands) and is also participating in the ToF study. Now, if you opt in for this study, they first check that you have at least 4 embryos on day 3 and then randomise you for day 3 or day 5. If you participate, all of the remaining embryos are also frozen on the respective days. The latest one can decide about the participation is on the puncture day. We got 16 eggs, I was very happy (3 times more compared to the first time!), so we decided to participate. Now, when we heard we only got 5 embryos, we withdrew from the study...

On the day of the ET we were told that we have 4 out of 5 embryos, one is being transferred and the other 3 will be frozen the same day. I asked how they decide when to freeze, day 3, 4 or 5 and was told that normally they freeze on day 3 and only if there are doubts they wait and see how the embryos are developing. I was told in my case they were of good quality, so there was no need to wait.

Now, 2 days after the ET I was called and told that they managed to freeze another one of our embryos!!! I was soooo surprised and happy. The fifth one apparently caught up and became a blastocyst, therefore was frozen on day 5!

VenusStarr · 22/05/2021 13:54

Hi everyone. I'm officially pupo! I have a 5AA hatching blastocyst on board 🥰 one was good to freeze and they're watching the other one ❤️ so happy.

Hooe everyone is well xx