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Sept IVF/FET Part 3

211 replies

Lemongrass1 · 08/10/2020 12:56

Keep talking! xx

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UncleBrynsfishingtrip · 22/10/2020 09:46

Not good news here. 8wks +1. No heartbeat. Very sad but I know we’ll be ok again one day xx

JandL2020 · 22/10/2020 10:02

@UncleBrynsfishingtrip 💔 😢😢😢😢

@Heidi37 I hope you are feeling okay

@Alexm06 good luck x

Alexm06 · 22/10/2020 10:18

I lost it too. Just a sac that is all now just have to wait for a bleed

JandL2020 · 22/10/2020 10:21

@Alexm06 so sorry 😢 take care x

Heidi37 · 22/10/2020 10:31

Hey all just an up date I had my D&C yesterday and still very emotional about it but thinking positive for my next cycle ! Hopefully December or January. @UncleBrynsfishingtrip I was thinking about you today and just seen ur comment 😭 I’m so sorry hun @Alexm06 I’m so sorry to hear u lost ur little embro baby to 😭@JandL2020 I hope ur doing ok .

Heidi37 · 22/10/2020 10:34

Sometimes life is very unfair 😭😭😭😭😭 my sister Inlaw and my best friend just announced their expecting . I’m thrilled for them don’t get me wrong but I’m sooo upset and honestly feel so sorry for myself and partner

JandL2020 · 22/10/2020 10:40

@Heidi37 that’s so tough 😢

Eggling · 22/10/2020 11:02

@UncleBrynsfishingtrip @Alexm06 I'm so sorry to hear your news. Life is so unfair sometimes.

@Heidi37 oh, that's a lot for you to handle! It's ok for you to feel sad for yourself.

Sending love to everyone x

UncleBrynsfishingtrip · 22/10/2020 11:03

@Heidi37 sending you so much love xxx

thefishthatcouldwish · 22/10/2020 11:24

@Heidi37 so sorry to read your news. So bitter when others are expecting.

@Alexm06 awww am so sorry

@UncleBrynsfishingtrip awww no. Sending strength and hugs.

Fightingtobepositive · 22/10/2020 12:27

@UncleBrynsfishingtrip I’m so so sorry life can be so cruel

@Heidi37 thinking of you xx

@Alexm06 I’m so sorry.

Be kind to yourself ladies. This is such a tough ride xxx

LJM83 · 22/10/2020 12:59

I'm so sorry to read the sad stories this morning, this process really is so hard. Sorry to keep the theme of bad news going - I had my 6 week scan this morning and it wasn't good - the scanner (not a technical term!) said that either my dates are wrong (which the clinic have said are impossible) or I am no longer pregnant. I live on an Island so can't have any of the follow-ups at my clinic. Having an HCG blood test this afternoon 😢

Alexm06 · 22/10/2020 13:13

God how can so many of us be so unlucky today! Thinking of you all ❤️

Eggling · 22/10/2020 14:00

Gosh this is dreadful, I'm so sorry @LJM83 I hope you get some answers x

UncleBrynsfishingtrip · 22/10/2020 14:18

@LJM83
I’m so sorry to hear your news. Do what you need to do to get through today. My sadness has been coming over in waves.
I can’t believe so many of us have had such bad news. We will get stronger but for now let’s sleep, grieve and get through these days xx

JenniferRo28 · 22/10/2020 14:50

So much sad news today, I’m really very sad for you all. Life is so cruel at times. I hope you have lots of love and support round you at this crap time. Cry, scream, talk.... whatever yous need to do, do it! Love to you all xxx

I’ve not had a great week myself, had a bit of bleeding and been feeling really rubbish, not had stomach cramps, just feel really sick all the time. I know bleeding can be normal but by god it doesn’t half put you into a state of panic, my emotions are all over the place and I can’t sleep so absolutely shattered. I’m keeping everything crossed my little bean is holding on in there 😔

Lemongrass1 · 22/10/2020 18:57

Sorry I haven’t been here in a while, I’ve just read back and am devastated to hear about the losses today 😢

@UncleBrynsfishingtrip**@Alexm06 @LJM83 @Heidi37 I’m so so sorry to hear about your news. I hope you have lots of support available to you. Life is just so unfair! Hi everyone, I’m really devastated to hear about so many losses today 😢

@unclebryns @Alex @LJM @heidi I’m so so sorry. I hope you have lots of support available to you. Life is just so unfair!

@JenniferRo28 Sorry you are having such a stressful time. I can understand how you feel about the bleeding. It’s so hard to stay positive sometimes. But like you say bleeding is common and doesn’t mean anything bad has happened.

Thinking of you all x

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Lemongrass1 · 22/10/2020 18:59

Sorry all, I really don’t know why my message posted so strangely! Shame we can’t edit the posts!

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JandL2020 · 22/10/2020 19:12

Hi ladies. Sorry to follow more sad news. Sadly both heartbeats have stopped 💔💔 I’ve been referred to my local hospital next week - not sure what the next steps are. Feeling so sad as I’m sure everyone is going through the same thing. Sending love xx

UncleBrynsfishingtrip · 22/10/2020 19:41

@JandL2020 gosh I’m so so so sorry. What an awful awful day for everyone. Please look after yourself Xxxxx

Lemongrass1 · 22/10/2020 19:56

@JandL2020 have been thinking about you and am terribly sad for you to hear your news. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to come to terms. I’m so so sorry. xx

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Sunbird24 · 22/10/2020 20:19

So sorry to see so much sad news, what an awful day. Hope everyone has some real life support to give them hugs.

Eggling · 23/10/2020 07:29

I'm so sorry @JandL2020 I hope you're being well looked after xx

LJM83 · 23/10/2020 07:51

Thank you for your kind messages - yesterday was a truly rubbish day for this group.
Hopefully those who have had bad news on this occasion will be on a thread together in the near future with more positive outcomes 😘

Alexm06 · 26/10/2020 16:31

Hey guys! Hope everyone is feeling a bit better! I was just wondering does anyone know how long it’s takes after you stop cyclogest will you get a bleed?