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AliceAbsolum · 22/04/2019 08:09

New March/April IVF thread.

I'm Alice, 34, TTC1 for 3 years 4 months. Currently 4 days into a short ivf protocol with max dose of stims as my AMH ran away last year. Its my only NHS funded cycle and my last chance to have a child that's genetically mine. /fingers crossed/

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Pleaseletitbeme · 08/05/2019 09:58

Well..... I couldn’t contain myself any longer so did a POAS 2 days before my official testing date.
At first there was just a big thick nevgative. But after about a minute I can see the faintest shadow of a positive. When I say faintest ive looked at it so long I’m boggle eyed. I can’t say for certain it is a positive but i’ll test again Friday.

2019isouryear · 08/05/2019 11:01

Good luck with your ET today @hopingforbabyd rooting for you x

🤞🏻 for a BFP @pleaseletitbeme.

Hope everyone is doing well.

Pleaseletitbeme · 08/05/2019 11:11

2019... how are you getting on? You’ve been in my thoughts xxx

Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 11:20

@phreedam I agree with @whatwouldpennydo you really do have to shove it in 😂 excuse the pun.
Thanks ladies we’re here and waiting
@2019isouryear keeping my fingers crossed for you lovely

2019isouryear · 08/05/2019 11:21

Thank you @pleaseletitbeme I’m doing good. We have our review with the consultant early next month, and just trying to enjoy ourselves at the minute as a couple and making plans with family and friends. We are thinking of trying again but not till later on in the summer. Prob going to try some additional supplements that have been recommended.

2019isouryear · 08/05/2019 11:22

Thank you @hopingforbabyd

Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 11:26

@pleaseletitbeme keeping my fingers crossed for you x

phreedam · 08/05/2019 11:48

@WhatWouldPennyDo I remember you form a while back, I hope this cycle goes better for you- they say the learn from the previous, and I guess its true because your body has never been through this before.
All the best!!

AliceAbsolum · 08/05/2019 12:40

@Pleaseletitbeme Ahhhh so exciting. Post a pic if you like, I love looking at squinters Blush

@hopingforbabyd Most people dont have anything to freeze....not that that helps the disappointment, BUT you should have a lovely 5 day Blast on board now, you're young, you've got a great chance.

@2019isouryear Sounds like a sensible plan. I reckon a couple of people in this thread will be in the summer ones. Look after yourself.

6 days til OTD...I'm struggling. Obsessively googling trigger shots, etc. It's not just pointless, its stressful. I will test on Tuesday, thats that. Not in my hands.

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Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 13:28

And just like that, we have our blast onboard 🥰 all went well, the only thing that I’m properly bummed about is that the embryologist thought she’d pressed the button to take a pic of our blastocyst but she didn’t. I feel terribly sad I always dreamt of popping the picture in a little frame. But never mind, all is good and that little blast was close to hatching and a good grade of 5cc - I’m just glad they’re back where they belong. Please stick! 🙏🏻💛 thank you for all your support ladies. Now the tww begins...

phreedam · 08/05/2019 14:06

@hopingforbabyd brilliant news that it all went well- I'm going to say...don't think about it...but that the most useless advice ever LOL. Just take it easy and be kind to yourself :) dunno if you've seen The Case Against Adnan Syed its on Sky Atlantic. that's a great watch . Also, The Inventor: Out for Blood in Silicon Valley is a really interesting too. Keep Occupied!
By the way, on Fyremadel do I plunge the whole lot in? As in is one syringe equal to one full dose?

Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 14:19

@phreedam aw thank you! Haha don’t worry I told myself that advice too 😄 I’m so glad it’s all done. We’ve gone to a gorgeous fish and chip restaurant as we live by the seaside and I’ve heard about chips being good luck 😉 I’ll give those a watch thank you! The freymadel you just put all of it in, it goes in so fast I felt like the hulk after I done it like “boom! done!” 💪🏼

mouse1234567 · 08/05/2019 14:41

Congrats @hopingforbabyd . Hope you manage to relax - good you don’t have to worry about work! Fish and chips sound yum!

AliceAbsolum · 08/05/2019 15:11

@Hopingforbabyd Congratulations 🎊 Sorry about not getting a picture, that's a shame. Fwiw you can't really see much.

When's your OTD?

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phreedam · 08/05/2019 15:20

good luck @AliceAbsolum hardly any time left for you now, just a few more days!

Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 16:03

Thank you @aliceabsolum I see what you mean 😘 OTD is 21st May. Finally tucked up on the sofa it’s nice when it’s raining outside and cosy inside isn’t it 🥰 how are you feeling? Not long now! X

Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 16:05

@mouse1234567 thank you! It’s crazy to think it’s all in and done now. It was very strange I thought we might get to see the blast go in but it’s okay I was imagining it instead 🥰 we did get to see them on the screen in my uterus though my bladder was so full she struggled but we saw the white little light. Fish and chips were fab x

mouse1234567 · 08/05/2019 19:51

Hi all-had drugs protocol appointment today and have just started norethisterone this evening and will be starting buserelin a week today-not looking forward to getting back on the injections but also keen to get started! Finally also got a date for my hysteroscopy today too which is scheduled for this Friday-very short notice but I’m excited it means my FET can get started on time. I really wondered if I was going to have to wait another month!

Hope everyone is getting on ok. I’m really trying to get myself back in a healthy mindset for the FET -so hard!

@Hopingforbabyd must be so exciting and emotional! Enjoy the feeling!

Hopingforbabyd · 08/05/2019 19:58

@mouse1234567 yay! I know it’s a bit bitter sweet but I’m so glad you’re starting again soon and so pleased you have your hysteroscopy appt through that is great!
Thank you, it’s a very weird feeling to know (for now...I won’t jinx myself) that all I can do now is just let nature take its course and hope for the best. Tbh I don’t quite know what to do with myself today so I’ve just taken a long nap with the big quilt on the sofa 😄 x

Pleaseletitbeme · 09/05/2019 08:39

Guys I need help.
Does this look like a positive?

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Twiglet2353 · 09/05/2019 09:32

@Pleaseletitbeme aargh I really want to say yes but I hate those blue dye tests! Do you have any FRERs?? If not get one and report back stat!! 🤞🤞🤞

Hopingforbabyd · 09/05/2019 09:39

@pleaseletitbeme I can see a line without clicking the pic 😍 but!....I completely agree with @twiglet2353 I hate blue dyes too. Is today your OTD? X

Pleaseletitbeme · 09/05/2019 10:04

Tomorrow is official test day
What is a FRER???

AliceAbsolum · 09/05/2019 10:11

Yes! That is definitely a positive!!

FRER is a pink First response test. But imo you don't need it because THAT IS A POSITIVE

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AliceAbsolum · 09/05/2019 10:13

@mouse1234567 Must be hard starting over again. Very glad you don't have to delay it any longer though.

5 days to go.....Proper cramps this morning. Obviously assuming the worst :( I cant even POAS because I had such a high amount of HcG trigger 12 days ago. Fingers crossed, keep positive Alice, lots of people have cramps. Accept The Uncertainty.

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