Hiya, my names Gemma im 26,
Just looking for some one to talk to, a bit of advice, an some one who understands...
Been trying for a baby for over a 19 months now.
Im really struggling now, as it’s causing tension between me an my partner with the situation of not being able to Conseeve..
(Sorry can’t spell I’m dyslexic)
We are very sexually active.. both have a healthy lifestyle. Both work full time, etc..
I have regular periods, but then occasionally every 3-4 months I’m late. Like this month I was 10 days late.
An 4 months ago I was 17. So we get our hopes up an then boom... hello period.
I have been pregnant before but I was only 19 an I was to younge, an my ex partner wasn’t the ideal man I’d see my self have a family with so I made the descision to have an abortion. (Majorly regret it now)
My new partner an I both don’t have children, but his told me his got his ex pregnant in the past... so he is positive it isn’t him,
Two months ago we paid to go private for some tests.
All my tubes are fine, no ccysts no problems, I had follicles there.. an my ovarys are fine apart from ones slightly smaller than the other.
so I’m even more confused of why it’s not happening.
I’ve started to stop stressing about it an what will be will be. Until he mentiond his two best friends .. there misses are pregnant so it’s more pressure than ever.
I’m confused. Lost, an upset,
We’re now in a major frump with each other, I’m so confused.
I’ve been having blood tests at day 21. An I’ve been doing ovulation sticks at home, an it’s saying I ovulate. So I just don’t understand.
So I’m thinking of going ahead with clomid.
I’m going to my doctor next week to get the results of my last blood test, and to talk about further options.
Has anyone else experienced what I’m dealing with?
What would you do or say..
So sorry to ramble on, 
Kind regards, Gemma xxxx