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IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.

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Dbear35 · 01/12/2017 11:16

A super group of women supporting each other and sharing their personal journeys and experiences during the IVF processs. All are welcome !

IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.
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Liverpool19 · 26/02/2018 21:36

minister I thought it came but it went again 😂🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ve hsd cramps today though so I think it’s coming. I have my scan Thursday then I’m assuming if it’s ok they’ll tell me to start!! X

Liverpool19 · 26/02/2018 21:37

Thermal everything minister and it’s still not enough 😂

RoseWrites · 26/02/2018 21:38

Minster! Hello :) thanks for the mention!

I stopped getting notifications about the thread so thought it had gone quiet. How wrong I was! Loads has happened! Hope everyone is well? And welcome newbies :)

I'm doing great thanks. My bump is getting bigger and bigger. A woman in a work meet ing asked me the other day if I'm 6 months pregnant 🙈 I'm only 5'1 so I think the baby is going outwards as my torso is so short!

Currently in the gym cycling and watching Greys Anatomy. My craving for chocolate and anything sugary shows no sign of abating and I want to keep vaguely healthy!

I have my 20 week scan in three weeks when I'll be 21+2. When is yours?

Xx

Aliona19 · 26/02/2018 22:03

Hey Rose, nice to hear u doing well xx

Minster.. hm.. u r killing me with clues like that 😅😅 u said u live near hull.. is it actually Kingston upon Hull?! Or I am giving up 😭😭

herewegoagain18 · 26/02/2018 22:14

Hi all
So i had my transfer, all went well.
They transferd two Embryos which were both 6 cells so above average (graded AA i think or A*)

They didnt ask us to decide (as i thought they would ) if we wanted one or two. we decided to go with whatever they thought best.

There are 4 remaining embryos
2 at 4 cells, 1 at 2 cells 1 at 1 cell
They are going to grow them and see if any make it to blastocyst then let us know later in the week so we can decide on freezing if any are suitable
Smile

user1497036202 · 26/02/2018 22:50

That's great news @herewegoagain18 - welcome to the 2ww! X

herewegoagain18 · 26/02/2018 22:54

Hi and welcome to midge
Im not quite sure about the bleeding being implantion as user said possibly down to using pessarys?
Hopefully someone can come along with helpful advice soon

herewegoagain18 · 26/02/2018 23:00

Thankyou user Grin
Feels very strange knowing there floating about in there ,well hopefully sticking on by now!

They will tells us the progress then give us a final call the day after so we can tell them our decision.
Xx

Liverpool19 · 26/02/2018 23:07

Brilliant herewegoagain fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼

rose glad everything is going well. My sister in law was the same as you she is tiny and had a huge bump 😂

Xx

user1497036202 · 26/02/2018 23:15

I know what you mean @herewegoagain18 I feel like my fate has been sealed by now as we are 4 days post transfer. I have no idea what her they are clinging on or not! X

Minster2012 · 27/02/2018 07:00

That’s great user everything crossed for you that those 2 little beans are snuggled away, my friend & I joked after transfer day that we hoped the embryo had got its health & safety equipment out, little hard hard on, had done its risk assessment & was making a really good scaffolding section to get to her lining & sticking there (as my DH had made a comment that she should push her son into a career in health & safety on the way!) so I hope yours are doing the same! Also, if any others grow on I hope you can freeze them xx

mrsmidge tbh a few ppl had bleeding at various stages on here so try not to read too much into it, it could be implantation bleed or irritation, it’s horrible being on knicker watch, when we got a bleed at 5 weeks into pregnancy & had an emergency scan our clinic said that 25% of IVF pregnancies get bleeding at some point which is crap!! Hopefully it will subside for u

aliona no one from hull calls it Kingston upon Hull cos it ain’t posh enough but I’m not from hull that’s just the nearest city to me for the IVF, thankfully I’m in the posh countryside! (She says snobbily, sorry!)

rose our scan is next Friday at 20+1, I can’t wait to check all is ok, my friend looks pregnant too but not huge! Another friend was also tiny & massive so it’s obviously a thing!

Aliona19 · 27/02/2018 15:40

Minster 😂 well in that case your clue sucks 🤣🤣😘😘

user1497036202 · 27/02/2018 18:37

No symptoms as of yet - sore neck and wind! Does that count?! X

Aliona19 · 27/02/2018 18:43

Hey User. I don’t feel like I have symptoms either 🙄🙄 just dizziness now and again, but then I am up early and not having breakfast till late.. I just want signs..good sings 😅

Aliona19 · 27/02/2018 18:44

Signs 😅

user1497036202 · 27/02/2018 19:50

I know what you mean @Aliona19 - weirdly now have a couple of low cramps but again could be anything!

This is going to be a tough week ahead! I am not sure snow days working on my own at home will help my sanity! X

swimchick1980 · 27/02/2018 21:27

Gosh, so much activity since i last checked. I only have a couple of minutes as just about to get off my freezing train.

Lots of people in the TWW, keeping everything crossed for all of you. I'm hopefully going to join you tomorrow. Got my ET appointment in the morning so fingers crossed we have at least one to put back in. I'm going myself so will be in charge of making the decision on my own which is a bit scary. I would be up for putting 2 back in if they recommended it but not sure DH would be so keen. I'm just going to do what they recommend though as they're the experts 👍

Aliona19 · 27/02/2018 21:53

swimchick1980 Very best of luck to you xx

Janefx40 · 27/02/2018 21:59

Good luck @swimchick1980 fingers crossed all goes well. Sounds sensible to follow advice. Can't believe how quickly this has gone - seems like an hour ago you were doing your first injection.

Good luck to @Aliona19 @user1497036202 @herewegoagain18 and all in the dreaded 2WW. It is a crazy time!

Xxx

PonyPals · 28/02/2018 02:38

Wow so much has happen since the last time I checked in!
Thank you for the warm welcome everyone.
This has been such a frustrating time for me. I was due to start pryganova but my AF wouldn't come so then I had to take pills to induce it.
Had scans and have a cyst on my left ovary. Doc is not worried and said that I am ready for pryganova so I started yesterday.
In a weeks time have my scan to check the lining and if all is well the FET a week after that!
Feels like such a long process and for some reason I thought it would all happen much easier and quicker than the IVF ICSI cycle!
It is great to hear the success and also the TWW. How exciting!!!

herewegoagain18 · 28/02/2018 07:28

Good luck to Swimchick!
Wishing you well today though im optimistic it will go well. Did you get to talk to your DH about if they suggest 1 or 2 embryos ? It is hard to make that descision alone i would have been really uncertain trying to decide. As you said its best to go with what they recommend.

The hospital moved my transfer forward to Monday so a 3 day transfer. They were aiming for a 5 day transfer so 1 blastocyst to be transferd. We had always said we hoped to get to blastocyst stage and in that case were happy and felt confident with the 1 being transferd.
The hospital had said only 1 blastocyst allowed and in case of 3 day transfer they prefferd one to be transferd over two.

On the way to transfer as things had changed ( we had expected it to be today), we said if given the option we would go for two as long as they didnt strongly advise against it. There were two standing out the best at 6 cells each. They decided to transfer the two without us having to decide against advice and we felt happy to go along with decision.

Thinking of you and sending sticky thoughts for transfer Smile

user1497036202 · 28/02/2018 07:40

Morning guys! Still snowed in so feeling like have a little cabin fever! I just wondered where you guys all stand the excercise/the gym after transfer/during 2ww?

Was thinking I may go this eve to try and get out if house but when you google it there are differing opinions x

swimchick1980 · 28/02/2018 09:59

Thanks for you good luck wishes.The journey here was horrendous so i figure surely if i have conquered the Beast from the East in getting here, i deserve some luck.

5 eggs got to blastocyst, so they've transferred one and frozen four. They may be able to freeze 2/3 tomorrow but not sure yet.

The procedure itself is absolutely fine but i got a bit emotional, DH had to work that so i was flying solo. Would have preferred him to be here but it can't be helped.

Thinking sticky thoughts.....

Janefx40 · 28/02/2018 10:13

@swimchick1980 well done good work! Amazing numbers - what a strong position you are in. Hope the journey back is better than the journey there. Sticky thoughts for this one - so happy about all your Frosties too!!! Yay x

user1497036202 · 28/02/2018 12:09

Great news @swimchick1980 - welcome to the 2ww! Great numbers to freeze as well! X