I vote we all go out and eat lots of junk food, drink lots of alcohol, and generally don't look after our bodies. Well that's what seems to work for so many women who get pregnant at the drop of a hat, time after time, while those of us who are very conscious of what we're putting into our bodies and carefully look after ourselves have problems! brown I never managed to get any of mine tested but I personally would avoid another ERPC, given the scarring it seems to cause. If you find the natural route isn't working though, you could always ask to see if your hospital will do an hysteroscopic-guided resection, I think my hospital called it - which is basically an hysteroscopy. It's MUCH more careful than an ERPC, it's what my hospital did after my IVF miscarriage last year and caused no scarring at all. I don't believe all hospitals do this, but it's worth asking for if you feel it's all just taking too long at any point.
village I thought there was still weird hope for yours - didn't you start showing positives on tests again? If I missed something I'm really sorry, and big hugs for both you and brown, we all really and truly understand the cr@p you're both going through.
duggs you made me smile with your 'if we ever have sex again' ... that's exactly how I feel right now! Ain't nuthin' doing on that front for months now - apart from anything else it would just be too darned uncomfortable! Love your pragmatic attitude to any future pregnancies - it certainly seems to be when people stop trying that things happen. Even if I wasn't as old as I am now there is no way on this planet I would put myself through the last 4 years again, I just wouldn't do it.
/waves to everyone, we're going to need a new thread soon!!