Grrrr, don't get me started on the flippin' orthodox Jews and the JFS! DH is Israeli, I converted through the Reform movement, so of course as far as the orthodox lot oare concerned, I'm not Jewish at all.
I go to Shul regularly, am a very active part of my Shul's community, involved in choir, Sunday school, toddler group etc etc, just because I enjoy it, and have thoroughly embraced my new faith (or ethnicity!).
My SIL did an orthodoc conversion, cos back in the day in Israel that was the only option. She's never had any interest in going to Shul at all. Until she and BIL moved to Watford, and she decided her precious boys should go to the JFS. So now they all go to Shul every week.
Gah!!!!
Not sure why it bothers me, cos a) we live nowhere near there so it's not like I'd be sending my DDs anyway and b) it's really nothing to do with me.
I guess I'm annoyed because she's only a part of her Shul's community to get her kids into a good school. I'm involved with mine because I genuinely want to me. I practice faith because it makes sense to me. And yet she's considered a 'real' Jew by the orthodox while I'm not, and my DDs would never be considered for the school because they're not Jewish enough.
Rant over.... my partly Jewish DD2 is crying....