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French citizenship : Only if your wife isn't veiled

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nothingofthesort · 11/12/2009 16:39

I can't figure out what to make of this. Men shouldn't get a say in how their wives dress isn't it? Doesn't this encourage the opposite?

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nothingofthesort · 12/12/2009 18:44

will be denied citizenship that should say.

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expatinscotland · 12/12/2009 18:47

i couldn't agree more, math.

having lived there, i can say, many French have a very strong sense of nationality, much more so than here, IME.

being French is an intrinsic part of who they are, and important to them.

don't like it, don't live there.

sarah293 · 12/12/2009 21:30

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expatinscotland · 12/12/2009 21:42

secularism is a strong part of french identity.

again, IMO, it's their country, their democracy.

ours went to fight an illegal war.

theirs did not.

tit for tat.

malung · 12/12/2009 22:18

This veil is nothing more than the oppression of women by men.
It has nothing to do with Islam.

It has no place in our society.

mathanxiety · 13/12/2009 00:42

Secularism really is a huge part of being French, and that is what precludes the veil-wearing. If the veil is just a piece of cloth why are some muslims so insistent on wearing it? It's more than just a piece of cloth to them, of course, and to the French too. It's seen as a counter-cultural (counter-French) statement, a statement of religious allegiance, therefore a political manifesto in the eyes of the Fifth Republic.

Squishabelle · 13/12/2009 00:52

Malung -well said.

CoteDAzur · 13/12/2009 00:57

What mathanxiety said.

expatinscotland · 13/12/2009 00:57

well said, math.

in my own limited experience, separation of church and state in all forms as much as possible is an intrinsic part of French nationality.

your religion is, in many ways, secondary to your role as a citizen of France.

personally, i'll go a step further and feelt is oppressive garment should be banned full stop.

it's dangerous and has no place in Western society.

expatinscotland · 13/12/2009 01:00

[wishes she were on the 'talk to me, i'm drunk' thread but elas, is sober and insomniac]

mrsruffallo · 13/12/2009 08:22

I agree with much that expat and mathsanxiety say.

sarah293 · 13/12/2009 08:56

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smallwhitecat · 13/12/2009 09:09

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Nancy66 · 13/12/2009 09:15

Any woman that chooses to wear one is betraying the thousands of women who are forced to wear them by their abusive husbands.

Any woman that voluntarily chooses to endorse the message that women count for nothing and all men are sex crazed and incapable of control needs to rethink her principles.

saadia · 13/12/2009 09:19

I would just say that the veil does not always signify oppression - I know women who wear hijab and face veil against the wishes of their dhs. In Afghanistan it is certainly a form of oppression but many women in the West choose to wear the veil for their own reasons. It is very ignorant naive to make blanket statements about the motives of all wearers.

sarah293 · 13/12/2009 09:27

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Nancy66 · 13/12/2009 09:27

that's a bit like saying the Nazi uniform doesn't always signify facism...some might wear it because the colour suits them.

NancyDrewRocks · 13/12/2009 09:33

riven whose to say it is harmless though?

Many woman are forced into wearing the veil and those that have chosen to do so often perpetuate the myths surrounding why they should have to.

I have had well educated, intelligent woman tell me that they wear the veil because essentially men cannot be expected to control themselves around a woman whose body and face is uncovered. I find that offensive in the extreme.

Nancy66 · 13/12/2009 09:37

crazy to compare a woman consenting to sex with a woman who endorses the uniform of countries that believe it's ok to stone women to death.

sarah293 · 13/12/2009 09:37

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skihorse · 13/12/2009 10:32

Very happy for the French. About time.

tethersjinglebellend · 13/12/2009 11:01

I disagree strongly with the veil, for a whole host of reasons.

But doesn't living in a democracy mean that there will be things you disagree? I'm glad there are things I disagree with in my everyday life- surely it's the mark of a free society?

The reason we would have to wear the veil if visiting some muslim countries is because their society does not afford its citizens the same rights as we do. Banning the veil is akin to forcing everyone to wear one IMO, and is just plain wrong.