FWIW, having come out of a long period believing some highly stylized things about Israel in what I would call the 'Christian Zionist' movement, I absolutely refuse to choose sides.
I no longer believe that the state of Israel has an alieniable mandate from God Himself which means that they are free from criticism, and I no longer fear that to fail to support them no matter what they do is to disobey God.
I abhor their policy of assassination, and cannot but be cynical at some of the timing of this action politically.
BUT, I cannot stand in solidarity with the residents of Gaza while they also continue to do stupid, destructive things that do not and will never change their situation.
My sympathy is with the people in Gaza who are often being bullied by Hamas into being in the line of fire, and with the people of Israel who have only survived because their authorities have chosen to build them shelters from the bombs that rain down on them.
I can't see that the answer is war. I understand it, really I do. But it's not going to work, and moreover, Hamas are savvy enough to make sure that every civilian casualty is forefront in our minds. Yes, they put civilians in harm's way, but Israel know this and still shoot. What can it ever acheive but grievance upon grievance?
I do not call for Israel to cease fire. I call Israel and Hamas to cease fire and stop this endless, bloody mess. I know they won't. I'm afraid that the fear and loathing on both sides go deeper than can ever be fully resolved - and that it serves the purposes of the US and a number of Arab nations to keep the situation as charged as ever.
But, good God, I wish I could do what I do when my kids are fighting, and tell them to go and sit on their own for a while, calm down and then come back and talk it out.