Haven't posted on any of these threads but all this registering revulsion is absurd.
I'm in Australia, where I run a playgroup. This morning the mothers have been discussing the case.
To quote one of the (British) mothers:
"I've been so affected by this case. I have taken this little girl into my heart and felt so much agony for the parents. I've checked the news on the internet all the time because they weren't covering it on TV.
With the news about the DNA I don't know what to think anymore. Have I been duped? Have the parents been playing with our emotions like this? Or is this all a horrible set-up, your worst nightmare and then you get blamed for it yourself - this case is keeping me awake at night and at least if the parents did it then I'll know that dear little girl isn't still out there suffering some horrible fate".
I think she speaks for a lot of people who wish to discuss how this case has affected them, and yes, the mothers were speculating about the evidence because (1) the PJ don't give much away and (2) it's all very confusing.
However, I feel it is their right to discuss this and don't see how mumsnet differs from the mothers at my playgroup this morning.
(However, when having lunch in a cafe at the weekend I blew my top at someone who was speculating about it as though it was funny, a sort of entertaining who-done-it mystery and told him what I thought of his attitude. The motives of most people discussing it n mn are entirely different).