Pro-paedophilia campaigner locked up - too blinking right!!!

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Kerry I read something about Kate Winslet where she apparently said if anyone ever abused her child she would "take pleasure" in killing them - how true that is I dont know.

OF COURSE I would FEEL like it, but how would me being imprisoned for murder help my child...they would just have that to misguidedly feel guilty for too.

My friend's abusers sexually abused him and also had paedophilic tendencies. By some of your reckoning this would mean his mother get locked up and the key thrown away. I can tell you, he never would have wanted that to happen even though he clearly understood the blame that needed to be apportioned.

What a bizzare question to ask of anyone!

tbh..I don't know. Probably a mix of very strong conflicting emotions, as you ask about likely feelings.

I hope I would react with the good grace and strength of the parents of Damelola Taylor when he was murdered, but I don't have their benefit of a very strong spiritualism.

But, I would need to ask you, why you ask that of me??

May I sustitute 'the most bizarro thing on MN I have read' with your question, Camm??

I just think its something that people should think about when they form their views about paedophiles

Is that it?? That's all??

Bloody hell! Do you seriously think that such views are so hastily formed that one wouldn't have ALREADY? It takes a lot of soul searching to take the approach I've been on about.

Was your post aimed at me Kerry?

rubbish!

Its not rubbish newlife

oh come on....Camm..justify your question of me?

it is rubbish to say anyone who hasn't been abused or parent to the abused doesn't have a clue. who made that rule?

I thought I had

Its just so easy to talk about stuff in a liberal way that you haven't had to deal with personally

Lets think about the victims of this sort of thing. I know several:

The mum who will not EVER have a boyfriend because she was worried that they might.....

The family who are totally ignored because one of their kids told....

The parents whose children are missing out because it might happen......

Its not rubbish newlife

I have had to deal with it personally. Not as a mother or a victim but very, very personally so please don't dictate your rules on feelings and understanding to me.

Thanks.

You're on the right track there UCM, the victimization doesn't just stop at the immediate victim