Again I say, people can discuss what they want - if people believe in psychic clap trap as you guys put it, then so be it, I have no idea why you guys takes such umbridge tbh - but there we are. Its an open forum.
For my part, Im just interested in facts and the news.
binkleandflip Im so sorry to hear about your DD. Its really hard for a child to push monster images out of their head, or dismiss what are very real fears to them. Their little brains are still developing and so cant always grasp reality from pretend to perhaps and maybe's. iyswim.
My DS has and still is, going through really bad night terrors. Even characters from the 3 bears is a problem at the moment, he see's bears on the ceiling, or thinks that the chink of light from the street, coming through the curtain is something sinister.
We have a christian faith in our house, and so all we can do is pray that the 'demons' (if you like) will leave him alone. We talk to him about nice things, like angels, and tell him that there are angels watching over him, and protecting him (which we believe to be true anyway). But still....darkness comes and with it images of all the nasties in the world. You are doing really well with your DD; just stay with it hun, lots of comfort and assurance that she is soooooooooooo special, that no one would ever dream of coming through her window!
I used to get really scared as a kid. But my dad was a copper, and I used to tell myself that NO ONE WOULD EVER COME INTO OUR HOUSE! self-managed meself tbh, as I had parents that just said 'oh dont be silly' - that really didnt help!!