martina your arguments on the border are so naive, I'm not even going to engage with them. Come back when you have a clue.
But more generally, you understand that the Irish don't really like or trust the British, right? And that they'd never, in a million years opt to have a closer relationship with them than they have right now? You should have seen the flag waving on the 1916 centennial celebrations. And on top of that they are extremely pro the EU.
As an Irish person, I take it for granted that everyone gets this, but it would seem not. Your posts read they're coming from an alternative universe.