Why is taking a taxi more of an option for a buggy user than a w/c user?
The wheelchair user has priority in relation to the wheelchair space on the bus. Therefore, if it's a choice between a wheelchair user and a buggy user for that space, the wheelchair user gets it and, if the buggy user can't fold or wait for the next bus, they will have to take a taxi. Therefore the buggy user must factor that into their plans. Obviously wheelchair users also have to factor in the possibility that the space may already be taken by another wheelchair user and plan accordingly.
Why is it assumed that w/c users are probably on their way to a medical appt whereas buggy users could just wait for the next bus? Same with the "planning ahead" remark, if a w/c user says he can't board because buses after buses are filled with buggies, then a buggy user in the same situation couldn't board either, so why is one told they should have planned ahead whereas the other should board immediately.
Because the buggy user has more choices. The wheelchair user only has the choice of sitting in a non-foldable wheelchair that takes up a lot of space. The buggy user could buy a foldable chair, use a sling etc. If they don't choose to buy a foldable pushchair and use it, obviously they are the ones who should be inconvenienced by that choice, not wheelchair users. And because those wheelchair spaces on buses were fought for by wheelchair users and are there for wheelchair users; buggy users can have them, but only if a wheelchair user doesn't need them.
"Having children is a lifestyle choice": children are needed for population renewal (I know, some discussions about it, but basically if everybody in the UK didn't have children for 20y don't you think it would cause issues??)
Please tell me you don't think people will stop having babies if they can't use wheelchair spaces on buses.
Having twins/triplets children is not a choice
True, but so what? You plan your life for the relatively small time they need a buggy accordingly.
You don't know if a child is result of rape (ie not a choice)
That's an extreme situation. How many people do you imagine there are at any one time who have a small baby in a buggy as a result of rape? How many people who become pregnant as a result of rape go on to have the baby? Should all buggy users have a right to wheelchair spaces in case any of their babies are the result of rape?
or if someone is in a w/c because of overly drinking and getting in an accident. My DS was in a w/c after having a parachute accident, is it considered a lifestyle choice?
Obviously not. No-one chooses to be in a wheelchair.
Why is "waiting in the cold" less acceptable for a w/c user than a baby or small toddler?
Because the small toddler is probably under blankets and quilts with a hat and gloves on, which is not necessarily the case for the wheelchair user; because the vast majority of wheelchair users will be in that situation forever - should they be condemned to wait in the cold for an hour or more a day for the rest of their lives? And because many wheelchair users' disabilities will be exacerbated by cold and damp, and they are unable to get up and run around to get warm, or be lifted out and cuddled for the same purpose, in the way a toddler can.