making an Opinion about this case, just People can do, who have experienced such Situations!
If the father, would be a good father, than he would not have gone so far.
There are Parents who think, that stop communiction with each other and just act through the courts, solve the Problems.
The outcome, is a mother with her Kid on the run.
And: The day they catch her, the Child will never forget.
The Child will be traumatised for his whole live!
The Child will miss his mother, for a very long time and suffer under the circumstances.
I understand Rebecca 100% because I did the same.
I know what is coming to her!
I feel Sorry for the Kid.
She should surrender now, because every day longer, she stays on the run, is more imprisonment for her.
Do you know that she can be convicted for 7 years?
Contempt to court and childabduction by parent even more.... 9 years.
If she give up now, she may be get probation with a good solicitor, and in about two years she can have unsupervised contact
( when she plays the game properly )
Damage has been done, and there is no way out.
@Tennis
its mentally abusing.
To break the bound between a child and his mother, is damage and abusiv!
I will never forget, how much my son was screaming when I had to return him to his father, before I "abducted" him.
My boy was using hands and feets against me.
He stopt speaking and just communicated with me.
The "Professionells" diagnosed him than as autistic, without given any view to the background.
A father who really cares and loves his child, would never let all this happen.
A father who cares, would try to find a peacefull solution.
He would communicate with the mother and making agreements without the courts.
This would be in the interest of the child.
The Mother acted by her Mothersinstinct, and by advice of her relatives.
Many write here about "refusing contact to the father"
But it seems that they dont understand.
The child lived with his mother his whole live.
The Child has not the same bound with the father.
It will be a nightmare for the child, living in the care of a father where he has no propper relationship with.
At the moment, the Child is very Happy in the care of his mother.
The day he will be taken away, will cause damage to him.
They should start thinking about the child, and its emotionell needs.
I abducted my Son not, to stop him from having a relationship with his father.
I just could not hold out this nightmare anymore, to see my Son all the time suffer, when he had to go with his father.
Therefore I was arrested and extradited by International arrest warrant, had no contact with my son for 7 months, and 11 months Prison, including two mental health assessments ( one from the forensic )
because a Mother who is acting by her instinct must be mental ill.
My Psychiatrist was shocked, about the acting in my case, and I just hope that Rebecca will not experience the same.....