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Charlotte Wyatt to go into foster care

793 replies

ginmummy · 16/10/2006 06:48

...because, according to the news, her seperated parents can't give her the care that she needs. It so sad, I want to cry. Poor, poor Charlotte, poor, poor parents.

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rust · 17/10/2006 23:28

donkeys wife - would you still if your child was going to have pain for the rest of its life and have poor quality (for the record i am not say that i can judge quality of life) i am just asking

Donkeyswife · 17/10/2006 23:31

Rust, yep, I reckon i would do anything for my ds, but as i've not been in that siutaiton, then who knows, but what i mean, is that i think charlotte's ma and pa wer e just doing what htey thought was best for her.

rust · 17/10/2006 23:31

bb i can only comment on what i have read and today i have read every artical and report that i could to try to understand i just feel so sad for her and her family...i know for sure my little boys problems have cause my and my husband to argue so much (he would not have brain damaged said in the house)I can only emagine how complexed it all is...

sorrell · 17/10/2006 23:31

Really, Kittydoesn't attack people? Then someone else is clearly posting stuff like this: "Charelypops I am not your dear and your comments are laughable. If you want me to take heed of what you say in any shape or form then grow up and take part in this debate as an adult and not as a child trying to be funny, it doesn't work." under her name and she should have a word with them.

rust · 17/10/2006 23:33

\I agree with you Don wife - you would not have the energy for that sort of fight unless you really wanted it, and its the easy option to listen to the doctors I guess

rust · 17/10/2006 23:35

sorrell do you have a real view on the subject or do you just want to talk about kitty cos i for one am not interested about comments about other members, i think she was just being passionat but lets face it it is easy to type something in haste

mummylin2495 · 17/10/2006 23:37

is that your excuse rust

sorrell · 17/10/2006 23:37

"I have to say it seems only a few people seem to be really rude and kitty's view are not and she does not seem to attack like a few of the girls who can not cope with adult conversation"

SO that's a debate about Charlotte Wyatt and her family and not a comment on other posters then?

Socci · 17/10/2006 23:38

Message withdrawn

VeniVidiVickiQV · 17/10/2006 23:38

Sorrell, to be fair - that was after Charleypops hurled personal abuse at her. Hence her retort that you have just quoted...

Look, I dont agree with Kitty's point of view, largely, but, I dont see what the point in the picking apart of her will achieve?

Are you trying to hound her off the site?

rust · 17/10/2006 23:39

sorry mummylin I take a while to catch on what do you mean? about my comment about pnd or just the fact that i am a trol i think they used or about my points of view???

sorrell · 17/10/2006 23:39

She has been incredibly rude and offensive to many people and her views are revolting. She'd be no loss to me, but no, I don't really give a damn if she stays or goes. Just making a point to the ever-lovely Rust, if that's OK with you?

kittythescarygoblin · 17/10/2006 23:40

Mr Kitty:
Luckily people can see for themselves whether Kitty attacks or not. They might want to check your posts too.
One thing people can't check of course is Charley's post which provoked Kitty's reaction which you've quoted Why not? Because it was deleted for being too offensive. But then you knew that already didn't you Sorrell?

Socci · 17/10/2006 23:42

Message withdrawn

HumphreyComfreyCushion · 17/10/2006 23:43

This thread is and .

Enough is enough for me tonight.

Goodnight all.

rust · 17/10/2006 23:43

yes i was totaly suck into the bitching but i am learning, i have not been on here before and have said things that are way off mark, but i was just hoping to draw a line but thats fine if you would rather talk about other things, i guess i have to learn not to read your boxes and stop trying to sort it out with you.

mummylin2495 · 17/10/2006 23:44

rust i thinh=k from whati have read on here today you are a very dispassonate person,and yes it was cruel to say about pnd.there are people whoare going through a bad time at the moment through no fault of their own,that was cruel.as for little charlotte yes maybe her parents have made mistakes but what a burden they have been under ,who wouldnt crack at all that in thier lives,i think i may if i had all that to cope with

rust · 17/10/2006 23:47

I thought there was a lot of intersting posts today, and i certainly learnt alot, but sorrell you don't really think that of kitty - (She has been incredibly rude and offensive to many people and her views are revolting) they are just views and interesting ones at that...

mummylin2495 · 17/10/2006 23:48

I agree with sorrell

webcrone · 17/10/2006 23:50

You know what? I don't know much, but I do know that Charlotte has hardly had a look in on this thread (and I'm not a latecomer, I've watched it unfold on and off throughout the day). Sometimes the grown up thing to do is let go of whatever position you hold dear and accept that there is no right and there is no wrong, there is only what there is, right here, right now.

From what I've read (and I take what I read in the papers with more than a pinch of salt, particularly these kinds of stories) Charlotte has been well enough to leave hospital, into the care of someone trained to meet her day to day medical needs, and into an environment that is better suited to her developmental needs, however limited they might be, for months. The family seem to be out of the picture, at least in the short term, and social services have been unable to find a suitable or willing carer.

None of us know how long Charlotte will live, and caring for her will be no easy task, but it's a sorry state that can offer no alternative to continued hospitalization, regardless of the circumstances. Shame on us all. Myself included.

rust · 17/10/2006 23:53

mummylin - i don't disagree with you about charlotte parents, but I my comments were not aimed at their family but at the disussions that were coming up along the way,,,, do all children have a right to life!!! this is a very deep statement and one i do not take back. I am glad for charlotte that she has quality of life but i hope she is not in constant pain like explained in the court case.
but my attach was at a person on the site not charlotte or her family, and not against people who suffer with pnd, my comment was very childish but i took what was said very personaly when you have a special child you are entered into the world of unknow and there are very strong emotions that come with that, but nothing excusses my commment,

VeniVidiVickiQV · 17/10/2006 23:55

Assuming that comment was levelled at me Sorrell, there is absolutely no need to be condescending. You do yourself no favours by being so.

mummylin2495 · 17/10/2006 23:56

lets all hope that they soon sort the care out for little charlotte and that she will get all the love and care she deserves.I dont know all the circumstances but i do know there is a little sick girl who needs looking after,that is what is important.goodnight all

HauntedsandCastle · 18/10/2006 01:31

'as for socci you are only up set because you have pnd get over it' Rust, that is way way below the belt! Would you say that to someone in RL?

kittythescarygoblin · 18/10/2006 06:56

Umm. 'attack' no, Sorrell, I call it a particularly calm and measured response to a particulrly nasty personal comment. Can't see you reacting with such restraint sorrell.
If I want to look for examples of attacks I tend to scrol through things you have written TBH.