To break it down:
"If he cries he cries for himself" - yes, Mr Nel suggested this in his questioning on more than one occassion.
'If he doesn't cry he is cold hearted' I haven't seen this said here but maybe some people think that?
"If he shows extreme emotion it is acting." again - something Mr Nel picked up in in court.
"If he doens't say he loves Reeva in a text he doesn't care" I think this was part of the prosecution's view too.
"If he did say he loved her in a text he would be considered obsessive" Again - has someone said this? You are righ, that would be a very odd thing to suggest.
"If he was tired that night and they didn't have sex that is a clear sign he wasn't that in to her" - personally I have never subscribed to this view.
" If they had sex that night he would have raped her" Wow - has this been suggested - I'll do a search and see but certainly not since I have been posting!
"If he wasn't sending X rated text messages to her he is abnormal" Was this mentioned too? I don't remember - there's a lot I need to look back on in that case!
'If he had been sending her X rated text messages he would be a pervert.' Really? Are you reading the same thread as the rest of us?
"If he apologizes to the Steencamp family he is selfish, insulting and making a specticle" It was rather a crass thing to do given that they had declined any private contact with him.
"If he doesn't apologize he is arroganct and disrespectful." He tried, but should have respected teh family's wishes and certainly not then gone ahead and done it in court.
"If he tries to write them a letter he is taking the easy way out" I disagree with this, the amily however do have every right to refuse a letter.
"If he tires to call them he is not respecting their time to grieve" I think trying to call them would be an awful thing to do - don't you?. He killed their daughter and is on trial for murder.
"If he tried to apologize right after the incident he is trying to make himself look better" It would just be crass to do so, no?
"If he comes home from a long day and goes up stairs to clean up while Reeva is fixing dinner he is selfish and unappreciative" Maybe this has been mentioned by someone, I've not read it. Will have a search.
"If he didn't have a gift wrapped and waiting for Reeva on Feb 13 he is a disrespecful boyfriend." Not something i agree with - he already said they had agreed it was no big deal.
'If he bought her a bracelet earlier in the year from a designer she liked he is more than likely lying and even if he did is still disrespectful.' In his testimony, his own words, he doesn't make it at all clear what the intention was RE the bracelet.
' If he has a bad day or under a lot of pressure and snaps or lashes out at his girl friend he is controlling, abusive, possessive, hot tempered and capable of murder' It's clear from the messages they exchanged that she had some problems with his behaviour towards her on a couple of occassions.
'If his sister cries in court she is accused of over reacting and showing dispresct to the Steencamp family' Again - not aware this has been said by many people but I have missed a few threads at the beginning.
"If she tries to speak to Mrs Steencamp she is trying to look good in court and pretend to show she cares aboout what they are going through." he just shouldn't be trying to speak to the mother of the person he killed while in court, surely?
' If the Pistorius family shows emotion and that they are standing by Oscar and still love him regargless of what happened they are off balance and unsettled' - For me personally I can see why they would care about him and be upset. Sadly for them they must know that someone killing your daughter is a lot worse than what they are going through.
'The people that support his are lunatics and divorced from reality' Are we all saying this.
' It matters not that the man is a double amputee from below the knee. He was an accomplished track athelete so he therefore should be treated like any other person with complete use of both legs off the track.' In a murder trial, where he shot the deceased of course he should be treated with the same legal process. what alternative would you suggest?
'He is not entitled to a defense' - everyone is entitled to a defence.
'He doesn't know how to choose a guard dog' - clearly, given his dogs were crap guard dogs this could very well be true?
'He is not allowed to feel fear' - he can fear things. Shooting four rounds at that fear when it is locked into a small cubicle is a bit over the top, no?
'Everyone but him tells the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth' - are you really following the same threads as me?
'He is expected to remember every single moment that happened that night' - He is just expected to be consistent.
'He lies every time he opens his mouth' Sometimes when he opens his mouth he lies.
'If he wears a black suit in court he is trying to show he is mourning' - that makes sense to me.
'If his friends or neighbours testify on his behalf they are lying, scripted, acting and generally misunderstood about what they saw and heard' - today's testimony shows very little important info. Some of it has been very scripted.
'If Aimee Pistorius removed RS purse from the house she is surely capable of stealing a watch, rummaging through the purse and possibly stealing a diary (really), or removing some incredible piece of evidence that would surely incriminate her brother.' She did a really stupid thing. No wonder her actions are open to scrutiny. However many other people here have said they would have done the same.
'It would be out of the question to think she may have wanted to prevent it from being ravaged by the "trusting police force".' - that's your opinion and like all opinion you are entitled to it.