If OP truly does have a narcissistic personality or is a big egotist or whatever, is it just possible that when he heard what he thought was an intruder, his only thought in those initial moments was for himself.
I've thought this for a while. Whatever else we know or don't know about that evening, we certainly know that he did not thoroughly check for Reeva before discharging his weapon.
The patio doors were closed, the bedroom door was locked (allegedly). It was a smallish pair of rooms. I cannot think of any excuse why he did not get verbal confirmation before shooting.
His excuse that he was so scared about the intruder doesn't wash for me. He was in the room long enough to get all around the bed, and get his gun. In that time, he did not get verbal confirmation. He spoke to her, but didn't insist on a response.
I don't live in a gun culture (thank God), but I understood that to be pretty basic. You check where people you don't want to shoot are before you shoot.
I also believe, but this is just belief rather than knowing for sure, that she screamed, and it took him a couple of seconds to process it was her. He heard a scream, continued shooting, then stopped a second or two later.
I believe (just believe) that by the time he'd got onto the bed and was looking for her, he had a fairly good idea that the scream he heard matched hers.
That's the very least I think. I'm waiting to see whether the defence has any actual defence against the people who heard the argument first.
On the small and big lies...
I think the end result is one which the accused/ suspect is innocent of but that they have fudged the truth to present themselves in a better light.
Yes, I agree here. I'm pretty convinced that he shot his gun through the sunroof of the car, and that he was the one who shot in the restaurant. If he lied about those things, it makes him into a liar (in my eyes). It's important because, once again, he didn't really know who that bullet might hit. They don't dissolve when they reach altitude. If he shot up into the air, the bullet will go, well, up, into the air. Then they start falling, and though they don't hit bullet-speed again, the can still do a fair amount of damage if you happen to be walking beneath.
(My dad was it by a falling apple which had been lobbed up high into the air. That was a hand throw and a relatively soft item and it still left quite a mark. We didn't laugh. Oh no, not at all.)