mimo - I wouldn't assume a pro-Israel lobby, and wouldn't go around attempting to label those who do not self-label. Further, I think it is possible to have sympathy with both sides - indeed that is probably what is most important in all this - the loss of life on both sides is horrific.
Personally, I do not have adequate understanding of international law nor of human rights conventions (nor infact access to unbiassed reporting) to try and rule on whether Israel's military campaign will be deemed a breach... IIRC there were some links earlier to claims that it had, but I presume the ceasefire delay and the lack of sanctions etc. mean that the response has some grounds / justification IYSWIM (certainly at commencement of hostilities). Also, from what I gather, both sides can / do (and indeed should !) be hauled up on their failiure to adhere to UN directives.
I think if you want to condemn, we must condemn those who perpetrate violence on both sides. You have done so, and I have no problem doing that too. What I do want to point out, though, is that each side feels, to some extent, justified in their behaviour, and it is this justification that needs to be examined. For example, how many attempted or actual suicide attacks are 'acceptable' before any response is deemed 'fair' ? The Israeli rocket / bomb attacks on civilians are decried, but rockets are also being set off (2000 or so IIRC) against Israel too. FWIW, when the IDF c0ck things up and bomb in error, they seem to at least regret that / investigate it. Conversely, I think it's accepted that the Hezbollah rockets are aimed solely at civilian areas. I appreciate, btw, that there have been challenges to the 'aiming at insurgents' claim...
I agree with ruty's emoticon of sadness btw. Not sure what this toing and froing can really achieve.
pd - If the multi-facetted nature of the debate is so obvious, perhaps you would then care to couch your posts with a little more balance and operate from a position where you can express empathy with those who suffer regardless of homeland or religion... As you said before "both Jews & Muslims do need to look at new ways to address each other's perceptions, and to educate themselves out of their own cul-de-sacs."
Re - your holocaust phrase and reference to the American prof. I read your linked article (twice). If I'm looking at the right text, it mentions the word 'holocaust' once. It does not put forward a hypothesis that Israel's actions are because they suffered a holocaust. The author goes into a lot more depth than that, referring to thousands of years of struggle, much of it in conflict. I am really not sure your phrase can be deemed a fair summation of the thrust of the article tbh.
Re - the wiki stuff - I would agree it's not a hate site, though I note that certain contentious articles have flags acknowledging their content to be disputed. Again, if you would post a source so I could read some background it would be useful.