'I know many different Christians- even liberals from URC, CofE, liberal Catholics, etc. who are pro-gay and pro-choice for example but they still believe there is only one God. They don't believe that there is "their" God for THEM, and a different "anti-choice, homophobic" God for people like me. In the same way, I believe they are wrong, and there isn't a "pro-abortion, gay accepting" God awaiting them when they die and "my" God awaiting me, but only one God. There is no element of extremism in deprecating the use of a personalising pronoun to describe God'
Atheism makes life so much simpler you know. Oh but what to do about my missing moral code??? 
'We respect other people without having to agree with all their beliefs or hold the ultra-postmodernist view that everyone has their own reality separate from anyone else's'
Oh we respect other people do we? DO WE? Respect their 'views' and 'beliefs' but not their right to life. Not if they are a woman.