"My post was also considerd to be an 'apology for rapists'; it was not. It was a stand up for those innocent people who have had their lives destroyed by a slur, later PROVEN to be false. "
a) How dare you come to a support thread for the victim of a rapist and start going on about innocent people who have had their lives destroyed by a slur - by which I presume you mean men who have been falsely accused of rape - when this thread is actually to support the innocent woman whose life could well be destroyed by a slur - well hopefully it won't, because she'll get the support she needs, to ensure that rapist Ched Evans and his accomplices and supporters, don't destroy her life.
b) The rest of the internet and the world, constantly "stands up" for that tiny little anthill of men who are falsely accused of rape, while ignoring the Mount Everest of women who are actually raped and have their lives, or years of their lives, dstroyed by the experience.
Let's repeat the figures:
1 in 4 women get raped or sexually assaulted in their lifetimes.
90% don't report because they know there is no chance of justice.
Between 2 and 6% of rape allegations are false. That means between 92 and 98% are true.
Only 6% of rape reports end in a guilty verdict. Most rapists walk free. Most don't even get reported.
The rest of the world, focuses on that tiny number - between 2 and 6% of REPORTED rapes and in doing so, ensures that most rape victims don't report and that when they do, most don't get justice.
On this thread, we are focusing on the need to support this rape victim and all rape victims. But you feel you have to come here with the usual myths.
That is why your posts are rape apologia and have no place on this thread.
If you had any decency at all, you would not be here. Say what you have to say in a more appropriate venue.