MONDAY FLY...ANOTHER WEEKS BEGINS! BRING IT ON!!!!

[EHM]

MOrning Ladies

Very wet, windy & wild here today.Off to catch up with yesterdays thread. will be back with mission etc.

Bianca A big hug from me regarding your mum. She wont mind you missing on the flowers TBH I do a tree from future forests for my dad each year - something lasting and tangable

Ruby you are a star - thnks you lots. I am going to have a massive list. I am going to have a mamogramm, ultra sound and possible MRI on wednesday. Pics are good.

Waves to everyone else.

Cat has been sick too so I have had to mop the whole of the ground floor
TD On
Thinking of what to cook for dinner
Misssion Done

Jas first thing my dad did way back when was teach me to change a tire

EHM Hope Ellie is not coming down with anything

sag beware my ironing breads when ignored

aww bianca {{hugs}} I like TMH idea of a tree.

Bianca thinking of you, you are right, best thing is to keep busy.

Hello.
DS1 went off on the coach happily.
DD1 appears to be much better. teacher said there are 6 off with sick bug. Still hoping no-one else gets it!

Have had a tidy up in the kitchen this morning. No electric until 12. Been off since about 4am!

Bianca Hope DS is feeling better soon. Hope you get to go and get some flowers. Will do DS good to get some fresh air. DD1 went in the buggy to school this morn. DD2 wasn't to pleased!

Sorry, forgot all the rest! Have to get some lunch now.
BBL.

Any extra advice here greatefully received!

Great ideas re the tree TMH Can't seem to set up a paypal account though Just keep getting the "page cannot be displayed" message for some reason
Thanks everyone.

ds is up - he's not tired (so he claims) so I'll wait fo rcake to be finished and perhaps pop out between showers....

Ironing (ignore ..I am)
Cleaned computer screen done
Put away play station
Drink water done
Mini sort of paperwork done
Check mortgage details (dh asked me last week)done
Put hoover away done
S/s bathroom/en suite
Clean en suite loo
Eat lunch doing now

Woo they love fantastic. I am feeling a bit wobbley aout it all at the moment - prob just need a good old cry

Pleased I have almost all my list done.

Wash DS2's nappies done
Plan dinner done
Clear landing done
hoover downstairs off to do hall now
Animals fresh water and check hamsters all have food done
Clean shower doing tonight
Wrap DS1's birthday presents done
Tidy DS and 2 room didn't need doing
Put away all our clothes done
Fold dry clothes and put in airing cupbaord done

OOoo ruby you are a wise old bird (Can I join you're fan club?)

Ruby You made me cry Thank you for your support. I just feel well, really confused. I know I am doing the right thing. I am prepared to fight for it. But I know that if defo means no more children (not that we are planning any), but it is a little sad.

DH said to me yesterday - we could always adopt or foster

TMH I think if you need to cry you should.ruby is very wise. My fear is that I'll say/post something & it will be inappropriate. I've said before you are brave + you are going to be on the biggest emotional roller coaster with lots to consider. YOur dh sounds very very supportive & that must be fantastic. You also have 2 very gorgeous little fellas who will love their special mummy regardless of what your boobs look like.{{{Hugs}}}

Ruby that link was interesting - didn't her boobs look great?!
TMH you have all our support in whatever you feel is best for you. I think you're very brave x x

I really ought to think some more about genetic tests for myself...too anxious about it all though tbh...I might approach the doc sometime and see what they feel is suitable for me...

bianca i've just sent you a txt.

EHM I am a tough Northern Bird - you could not offend me if you tried

Bianca you know where I am if you need to chat

What Bianca/Ruby and Ehm said !

Ds has just culled some old toys .. I am in

Bianca reading your post about your mum made me realise how lucky I am to still have mine around- went and called her straight away- so thank you for sharing and for your loss all those years ago.

TMH your story (what I can gather from it being a newbie to this thread ) is another one that has made me think. In both mine and dh's family there is a history of breast cancer and when I was in Lloyds chemist the other day they were selling breast examination guides so have bought one for me, my sis, mum, MIL and SIL too. No suggestion of any genetic predisposition in in either family but it's another thank you from me for sharing your tale on here, hope that it is as useful for you as us xxx

TMH Lots of wise words on here from wiser people than me! As Bianca says You have out support whatever you decide is best got you.

Bianca Hard for you to make the step towards getting drs advice but really worth doing. I think i would want to know either way myself. My Nan died from breast cancer.

minkus we often don't appreciate a good thing till it's gone. I never had the chance/thought to appreciate my mum properly (something which has only really come since having my own children)
TMH Thanks

I managed a quick trip to the cemetry after I'd collected my dad from the station. Mums grave was covered in snowdrops and daffodils and primroses so looked really pretty and full of life I'm glad I popped down there and feel better for it

Better go and serve supper - tuna and pasta bake, nice and easy

tort I know, I know - it's soooo scary though

Glad you manaaged to get to the cemetry. Sounds like the grave looked very pretty.

Hello again everybody

Ed is flatly refusing to attempt to read {grr} I think he may be tired as he was up at 6:05 this morning

Been to work, DH is making minestrone for tea and I'm searching for cool things to do with Ed for the Easter Holidays. nd some light flying in the laundry area

DH has also helped with Ed's Easter Bonnet (Well, boater with tissue flowers and pom pom chickens on) which was nice. I think he's looking forwards to going back to work tomorrow!

Bianca a hug for you and one for Minkus too

TMH You are being incredibly brave. Positive vibes from the Grouchy House going up the A1 to you

Evening all

Just had a "moment" Screamed at DH that I might as well do all the bloody disapline and be the one that the DS's hate - exactly what we didnt want, but god he can be waste of space on that front sometimes.

He baths, I room rescue the conservatory, get drinks ready and PJ's etc. Chaos coming from the bathroom, more water out than in and he is just shouting - yes a 20 month old and a 3 year old are going to listen

Bianca It must be nice to have somewhere to visit. My dad is out at sea (Mum scattered his ashes on her own and wouldnt tell me or my bro exactly where- no suprise there then). That is one of the reasons for the tree.

Minkus I am not brave just stuborn - took a while to get the DS's I Will be well enough to watch them grow up. Aunt died from ovarian, another aunt currently in remission. loads of relatives have had stuff

Tort I have no advise I am afraid on your issue