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Fledglings Flying into Jubilee June

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ExtremelyDedicated · 31/05/2022 22:40

Hello everyone, and welcome to the June Flylady thread.

We welcome newbies and returnees - if you are curious about the system feel free to ask questions or lurk! We do follow it, erm, loosely to say the least. So there is a lot of chat about random life stuff as well as housework, decluttering and organising.

A key element of flylady is not being a perfectionist. Most of us here are not naturals at housekeeping etc, so please don’t feel we are some intimidating group who demand perfectly shined sinks. We are human. We fall off the wagon. We commiserate and help each other climb back on, and we stock the virtual naughty corner with snacks and blankets for the days when adulting is just too hard.

So, the system:
🔹Some baby steps which are designed to help you build up a routine.
🔹Daily missions to help with sprucing up particular areas in the zones, for example the first zone of the month is the entry/porch and dining room if you have one.

🔹Try and do 15 minutes decluttering a day. It didn’t get cluttered in a week so it will take a lot longer to clear it!

🔹Daily focuses to help shape the week.
🔹Here on the thread many of us post to do lists, but also “ta da” lists of things we’ve achieved that day.
🔹We also recommend the Power of Three technique - if you’re overwhelmed with too much to do, just pick three things and don’t think about the rest.

Anyway, I will post some links each day (hopefully) but whether you follow the system or not - many of us just take the bits we like or build our own flylady style system to suit our own lives - do join in if you want a place to chat about keeping a house and family running!

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GreenWillowAndCatkins · 13/06/2022 07:40

Morning all! Tried to get on last night, MN was down again. I dropped off again over the weekend, but got plenty done yesterday.

Ta da!
❤️ Finished first bit of client writing
🧡 Client agreed to the extra bit!
💛 Took DS3 to the Junior Tennis Social. I think he quite enjoyed it.
💚 Multiple LOLs
💙 Got DC to change their beds
💜 Posted DSis a birthday card
❤️ Started new bullet journal
🧡 Cleared a bookshelf in the living room
💛 Picked rhubarb from the garden, stewed it, made rhubarb and apple crumble for pudding yesterday
💚 Decided DH could do veg and gravy after I put roast beef in and made pudding. 😁
💙 All clean washing handed out, and mine put away
💜 DS3 and DD both cleaned and hoovered their rooms without prompting!

I'm sure there was other stuff, but I've forgotten it.

Today, just aiming to get to bedtime.

ExtremelyDedicated · 13/06/2022 09:31

Morning, I too tried to post last night to no avail. I'm at work now so haven't got time to post links but it is the same link every day if you scroll back up.

Back later

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HillsBesideTheSea · 13/06/2022 10:53

Negative... so now i gotta focus on all the things...Yikes.

And good morning!

HillsBesideTheSea · 13/06/2022 17:03

ta da
hoover car
return stuff to car tidy and organised after it was removed for servicing
put away froze stuff of online shop
wash duvet
15mins decluttering in my room
15mins decluttering in kitchen
turn all of the ironing the right way round ready for ironing
folding
provide peoples with breakfast and lunch
do a big food shop
put frozen and fridge stuff away from that
set up for fish water sorting

I am about to take a nap, before sorting tea for people (left overs), dealing with the DW and making pies. Today i was tired when i woke up and it has not shifted. Guess i better get used to hitting my normal again. Was nice to have a break from the chronic illness crap that is for sure.

BeanAnTae · 13/06/2022 19:25

Locked myself out of the app but still on mainsite 🙄

ExtremelyDedicated · 14/06/2022 06:43

Morning all, I couldn’t post again last night, MN is not great ATM.

Weekend was very busy, mainly taxiing teenagers around but also had a nice brunch out with friends on Saturday and lots of time at the allotment. Still in the middle of GCSEs and A levels, the atmosphere is oddly calm and quiet at home, looking forward to them all being finished next week.

Today we are in Zone 3, the main bathroom and one other room. Yesterday’s missions were to tidy out the linen cupboard and hotspot your other room (for any newbies hotspotting is tackling those places in a room where stuff gets dumped, such as coffee tables).

Today’s missions are to scrub the wall of your shower and make your spare bed if you have one.

flylady.net/c/fp.php?tzm=-60 - links here

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GreenWillowAndCatkins · 14/06/2022 07:27

Morning @ExtremelyDedicated , thanks for the links. I tried to get on with more Ta Das last night, but the website fell over again. I'm not convinced this new platform has been the panacea for all ills MN Towers were hoping.

Hills glad you are better, althought that's clearly filled your life with many other things to fix in the meantime.

Mc hope McToddler let you get some dinner.

Dancing stay under blankets in the naughty corner if you need.

Hazel what a lovely boy you have. Hope his VR headset turns up today (have I got that right?).

Bean MN has been a right pain, hope you can sort out your login.

🍒👋 to Red, Sing, Zoo, foxes, Up, That, Fly (are you ok? We've not seen you for a while) and everyone else.

More TaDas, mostly weekend ones I forgot yesterday
❤️ Tidied up and hoovered the loft room, as DS1 & his GF are staying Thursday and Friday night! 🥳🥰
🧡 Dyed my hair, so I look slightly les ancient and unkempt
💛 Two week menu plan, leading to Tesco order that arrived yesterday.
💚 Drew a family tree. Checked a final date. Realised I'd made an error. Redrew family tree, one generation bigger and twice the width 🤦
💙 Many LOL, including the dog cushion from under my dressing table
💜 Fakeaway kebabs for tea - flatbreads, chicken, salad, sauce.

Important points in today include writing up that family tree, making a cottage pie, coffee with a friend (I hope) and Pilates.

GreenWillowAndCatkins · 14/06/2022 08:08

Revised plan: no coffee with friend, her Y7 has Covid and I can't risk it. Also, I could out-Wordled by my 11 yr old. I think I might just go back to bed!

HillsBesideTheSea · 14/06/2022 09:26

Well it is still eating posts.
And when i tried to open mn last night something had to "check my browser before it could redirect me to mn" which was sketchy as shit.

HillsBesideTheSea · 14/06/2022 11:43

Also because it needs to be said and reminded that we are not super humans!!!

Fledglings Flying into Jubilee June
CurseYouPerryThePlatypus · 14/06/2022 12:18

Thanks hills I really needed to see that today 💐

Very much rabbit in headlights mode lately, headache is returning too. Perfect time for a power of three I suppose as I’m struggling to even decide what needs doing!

po3.1
❗️Painkillers, water, food of some description
❗️Find work phone and make sure it’s charged
❗️Open box of work stuff and take photo for colleague

CurseYouPerryThePlatypus · 14/06/2022 13:16

Can’t even take a photo for colleague as none of my apps are letting me access camera and I can’t find it anywhere on settings WTF?!

po3.2
❗️Finish episode of decluttering show and try and relax a bit while eating an ice lolly
❗️Quick bit of booking admin for work
❗️Return enquiry call and update records

BloomingHazel · 14/06/2022 14:37

willow yes, his VR headset should be arriving today. Sorry to hear you have to miss out on coffee with your friend, I understand why.
hills I'm glad to hear you're negative now, too bad everything else is coming back though. I was hopeful Covid scared off the rest of your ailments.
Perry that's weird about your camera. I'm sure you've already tried, but have you restarted your phone? I wonder if there is an update or something too 🤔

Ta Das so far (not quite 7:30am):
🚲 had 1st cup of coffee (so no one dies today)
🚲 sorted my hair so it wasn't so wild
🚲 dropped DS off at cross country training with his bike
🚲 had 2nd cup of coffee (I'm still not feeling awake though, but a 3rd cup will hurt my stomach)

When dropping DS off I take the dog. I decided to put my window down all the way because she gets over excited and pushes buttons. I'm glad I did as she locked me out! She did also open another window fully. She has figured out opening windows in the truck (she loves sticking her head out when driving - no matter how cold) she sulks when we tell her no because it's cold outside 🤨

I do need to do clean the bathrooms today for sure, as well as washing sheets on both our bed and DS'S bed. Grocery shopping needs done as well as meal planning and prep. I will cook DH his eggs for the week in a few minutes, but enjoying the quiet in the house in the meantime.
🍒👋 to everyone. It's so quiet on here 😩

BloomingHazel · 14/06/2022 18:04

Ta Das:
💤 cooked DH his eggs for the week
💤 picked up DS
💤 drank 3rd cup of coffee
💤 meals planned for the week
💤 grocery list done
💤 1st LOL in dryer (sounds like it just got done)
💤 2nd LOL in washer (should be done also)
💤 1hr nap, I feel better for it

Now I have to get up and get moving. Time to work on more LOLs, take the Jeep over to get washed and go grocery shopping. I do feel refreshed from my nap, so clearly needed it.

Mc3209 · 14/06/2022 20:25

Willow your waffle recipe went down a storm at MC household! Thank you! I shall be pinching it for regular use 😋

BeanAnTae · 14/06/2022 22:40

Back on app now!. Was zooming away with work and household stuff and now DH has Covid and a nasty fever. Busy day at work tomorrow so I'll sign off tonight. Any sign of Red?

BloomingHazel · 14/06/2022 23:39

Bean I haven't seen Red in a while. I hope your DH is feeling better soon

More ta das:
🦎 4 more LOLs
🦎 lunch made, DD & her DF joined us
🦎 Jeep washed
🦎 groceries bought
🦎 pork shoulder in oven (will be a late dinner 😔)
🦎 DS picked up by friends to go hang out at the local arcade

DS did get his VR headset today so had been playing with that and setting it up.
I really need to get the shopping put away now. I was going to bake cupcakes for Thursday to take to work, but since the oven is in use I'll bake them tomorrow night. I don't know why I didn't think that through very well, of course the pork will take a while to cook! 🤦‍♀️

Stilllivinginazoo · 15/06/2022 05:55

I can't scroll back on this update with my phone it glitches too much and opens all the ads..
Hope I've not missed any monumental news and everyone's ok
Been crazy at chez zoo D's did his last GCSE English stuff and as if Monday just gone is a free man til September!
Dd2 is having a hard MH wibble and lil zoo went barmy at school yesterday,shouted at HOY then burst into tears!
I've dental appointment today,and tomorrow council are coming to fix the fire(oh the irony In this heat) so need pull house up to some standard today

CurseYouPerryThePlatypus · 15/06/2022 08:25

Morning all!
Yesterday was immensely unproductive. But today I need to get moving and pack for a work trip - big conference tomorrow and I decided to stay nearby rather than travel on the same day. Then on Friday, because I’m a muppet, I agreed to a school visit in the morning, so I need to travel from the hotel (two trains) to do a slightly scary thing on my own, before then heading home (two more trains). Oops.

po3.1
❗️Meds, water, breakfast
❗️Find work shirt and decent bra that doesn’t stab me with wire
❗️Reboot phone - good idea hazel

Hope DH is feeling better soon bean

Upsadiddles · 15/06/2022 09:38

Morning everyone! <sleepily emerges from naughty corner>. We’ve had a very busy time with a lovely weekend away and then a poorly baby who didn’t want to be put down for 48 hours. She’s very much her usual happy self this morning and is gracing me with her usual
long morning nap. So, having done the school run and posted some returns <polishes halo> I’m enjoying breakfast in the garden and going to catch up with you lovely lot. Still got a few bits and pieces to unpack but the washing is caught up with. Relaxing day overall for me. Hope you’re all well!

CurseYouPerryThePlatypus · 15/06/2022 09:40

So the work shirt went on a quick wash and is now drying 🙈🤦🏻‍♀️

And hazel the reboot actually does seem to have fixed the problem, thank you!

po3.2
❗️Drag out the suitcase and start packing
❗️Switch on laptop and try to get a few bits done
❗️Put a bra and fresh top on ready for work meeting at 10.30 - rather not shower until I’m done rushing round!

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/06/2022 10:34

Early morning physio - done
Post physio sulking - doing
deal with people and leaking roof situation - gonna need a new roof Angry and then ceiling repapering and painting etc. can never just get a room done and move on. ffs!
people have been given the lounge for 1 hr whilst doing the post physio sulking. I have it on timer and everything

Then to do
make bread
washing into machine
food shop away
finish washing up big things and awkward bits
hoover lounge
make pie
take a walk
do physio exercises
fish tank water change
pick up some bits from the big tesco and stop for fish tank water
pay credit card bill
put in prescription request
deal with the fridge of doom
sort out getting the potato pots washed up - rubber gloves so i can do this safely is on the tesco list!
Pick up stitches on a craft project so it can get finished
put a do whilst watching lectures project on the needles.
see if can find the bits for finishing a stuffie
try to find solutions to the bastarding fox issue in the garden. bloody vermin
consider reading a book rather than getting sucked into drama series.

there is more so much more but that there is already totally unrealistic. So i will stop with the list!

CurseYouPerryThePlatypus · 15/06/2022 12:29

Meeting done 😴 and some other bits and pieces

po3.3
❗️Empty backpack and start packing that too
❗️Clean bunny tray
❗️Shower and get dressed properly once packed

GreenWillowAndCatkins · 15/06/2022 13:07

Oof it's hot! 🥵 <crawls into naughty corner for iced lemonade and air con> The weather station on the fence said it was 32 degrees in the sun at 11am!

Glad to hear Littlest Upsadiddle is back on form Up, and I hope you get the relaxing day you deserve!

Hazel it's amazing how a nap can fix things, isn't it? Glad the dog didn't manage to lock you out of the car!

Hills that sounds very busy. Really sorry to hear about the roof. Who is sulking after physio, you or one of the People?

Zoo hurray, you're back. Good luck with the dentist. No monumental news missed, the thread is very quiet since MN killed the playform by diddling about with it.

Ta Da:
💖 Finished the wider family tree
🧡 Pilates without tying self in a knot
💛 Counselling phone call. Ugh.
💚 90 mins decluttering the music room / study and redistributing things. Looks much better. DS3 got to hold a music cassette (a C90, for those who are interested😂) for the first time, and was all "wow! That's amazing". I feel SO OLD.
💙 Tidied up the sewing things from last week
💜 Received a letter from the anti-coagulation consultant I've never seen - I'm on blood thinners for life now and he has discharged me 🤷‍♀️

Now lurching through the rest of the day without succumbing to the urge to buy ice cream!

HillsBesideTheSea · 15/06/2022 14:48

I was the one sulking after physio. I have a good physio, but there is nothing about physio is fun. And it takes time, and hard work, and sometimes going backwards.

A quick water change on the tank became a strip down, fix and rebuild job. Hmm
bread is done
Fish tank water was picked up but was used up so will need to redo that job
People have been peopley so that has required dealing with.
Also need to pick up some clove oil so will need to pop into the town 2 over.